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I spend money on them and don't feel "fucked over", Why would you? most of the frustration with the band is the lack of music we could buy.
I try to go to every show they do in portugal and buy their music. I'm not really a merch guy in general, so I don't really care much about that.
What I really want is to physically go to a store and buy their new album (hopefully in my lifetime), haven't done that in years for any artist, let alone my favorite band. To bad I was 11 the last time they've release an album.