Roush Posted September 24, 2014 Share Posted September 24, 2014 Nope, had lotsa sex though There's some lucky lads out there, clearly You wanna add to my threadcount, sunshine? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roush Posted September 24, 2014 Share Posted September 24, 2014 Romantic love is self-destructive in theory. It's making yourself less than whole to complement another person (Taoism, yin and yang, etc.) Have you ever wondered why people with low self-esteem bounce around from relationship-to-relationship like live-action pinball, seemingly unable to be single? Love is perfect when the utility is marriage; children; or the transfer of property. Otherwise, it's a feeble explanation for a naturally-occurring, biological phenomenon as the result of 200,000 years of evolution. With that being said, I'm sure I'll be at the altar one day like the rest of ya. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SR_GR Posted September 24, 2014 Share Posted September 24, 2014 Yes, but I am not even trying to explain the concept.One of my favorite things is to talk about relationships with strangers when we are stucksomewhere for a longer time like a night train or just about anywhere. Strangers areoften more open about their lives than people we know. Some of the stories I have beentold are like chapters of some fascinating book.There are all kinds of relationships and each relationship is different for each party.This is one representation of how I see it at the moment.Reasons for starting a relationship or staying together:0.1 To avoid boredom, a habit, fear of loneliness0.2 One is expected to live in a relationship0.3 Regular sex0.4 Monetary obligations, money, more money together0.5 Providing a home for the kids0.6 Friendship, liking the other person0.7 Good sex and friendship0.8 A similar sense of humour, friendship and great sex1 Love: infatuation, weak knees, not able to think clear when the other person is in the same room2 Love: a loving connection, feelings of love towards the other person, many sublevels 2.1, 2.2 etc.3 Love: a shared personal, universal and unconditional love, levitation, heavenly – rare 1/100 0004 Love: a total explosion – rare 1/1 000 000 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
streak Posted September 25, 2014 Share Posted September 25, 2014 No. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Len Cnut Posted September 25, 2014 Share Posted September 25, 2014 No, cept my brother, who really is a fabulous person. Also, he can have my car.Aw, cheers mate! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strange Broue Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 No and I don't think i'll ever be.why? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damn_Smooth Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 No and I don't think i'll ever be.why?Because she hasn't slept with me yet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Graeme Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 No and I don't think i'll ever be.why?Because she hasn't slept with me yet.As damn smooth goes... that was pretty damn smooth. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
love&hates Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 (edited) Yes , i was .I say you can be sure that you were in love for someone, when you can look back even if you didnt have the fairy tale ending and say "yeah , i suffered but i wouldnt change what i lived , and felt ". Fortunally i have that ...yeah it didnt work , but what i lived with that person , was and still is very important and dear to me .As anything brings good and bad things , even in the most beautiful love stories im sure there are moments of pain and uncertainty. Dunno , people see the "romantic love" as a magic cure for everything inside of you , and in your life ....not really .Someone can love you , and you can love her back, sure that will help you , bring joy ...but if you arent able to work on whatever you have to work , even that love will get ruined ...Anyway to this day im still very thankfull for the fact that one day i could enjoy that feeling , something so real that made me be honest and open ...There was no plan, i just had to follow what i felt , always knowing the possible consequences. Thats the most incredible and exciting thing about it, the choice you make of giving yourself to that feeling...such a brave thing to do . Edited September 30, 2014 by love&hates 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strange Broue Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 No and I don't think i'll ever be.why?Because she hasn't slept with me yet.why? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damn_Smooth Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 No and I don't think i'll ever be.why?Because she hasn't slept with me yet.why?Because I can't find my chloroform. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Len Cnut Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 And your cattleprods on the charger. I know this you see because I'm Damn Smooths farm-hand. It's a fulfilling job, he beats me regularly but the horseshit sandwiches are good. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
streak Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 You fuck them up the kyhber as well you sick twisted pervert........... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoulMonster Posted October 2, 2014 Share Posted October 2, 2014 It really is an opaque word.I love my wife but what we have now is like a log fire that glowers and warms, very controllable and very predictable. Not like falling in love which is like when paper and small pieces of wood catches fire and you get that bonfire that is just wild and explosive and you have no idea how it is going to end, to keep on burning, smolder out or just blow out in an instant.Not that I miss all aspects of being young with a crazy heart. Unrequited love is agonizing. When you can't sleep nor eat. But the high when you get the "dream girl" beats everything. The thrill of being alone for the first time. The touch. The kiss. Reciprocal love has literally sent me dancing through the streets. It is the biggest high for me. And of course I will miss that. Not that I would change anything. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Len Cnut Posted October 4, 2014 Share Posted October 4, 2014 Wa-hey, Soulies back, how you doing Champ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wasted Posted October 4, 2014 Share Posted October 4, 2014 Love is just to keep the divorce lawyers alimony paid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arnold layne Posted October 4, 2014 Share Posted October 4, 2014 I am not one for commitment. In high school I had a few instances where I would go to the dance with a girl and then afterward when I got their number and a future plan set up, I would get this dreadful sinking feeling and bail at the last second. Not my thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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