Snake-Pit Posted September 14, 2016 Share Posted September 14, 2016 Just now, AxlsFavoriteRose said: so like a wing man ( or wing woman i guess. ) I guess. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AxlsFavoriteRose Posted September 14, 2016 Share Posted September 14, 2016 Just now, Snake-Pit said: I guess. that's what we say here...i guess you don't? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snake-Pit Posted September 14, 2016 Share Posted September 14, 2016 Just now, AxlsFavoriteRose said: that's what we say here...i guess you don't? Wing man... nah. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 Thanks everyone. Taking all your advice into consideration. ❤️ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 So I'm meeting him tonight for dinner and I'm going to be honest with him and tell him I don't feel the same. Wish me luck! I'll let you know how it goes. ❤️ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-W.A.R- Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 (edited) its a tough place to be in but its ultimately his fault that he stuck around in the friendzone for so long before making his intentions clear why men do this to themselves is beyond me. stop being a pussy and ask her on a date from the start you goof. Edited September 15, 2016 by -W.A.R- 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-W.A.R- Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 (edited) 1 hour ago, Axl Roses Future Wife said: So I'm meeting him tonight for dinner and I'm going to be honest with him and tell him I don't feel the same. Wish me luck! I'll let you know how it goes. ❤️ i personally wouldn't have let get that far. meeting him for dinner is kinda leading him on, but again i know its a awkward position for you. pay your half of the bill atleast!!! don't skate out on him like "wow that steak was great....oh yeah, im not interested in you. k thx bye." Edited September 15, 2016 by -W.A.R- 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ace Spade Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 Unless he's a Homosexual, there's no such thing as a Man that only wants to be "friends" with an attractive Woman. We 're just not wired that way, it's against our biology. "Friend zone" is a Psychological and spiritual killer to a Man if it goes on for too long. If it's been six years and he's finally telling you now, it's probably because he's at his breaking point. If you value his well being you need to immediately change the dynamics of the relationship. He won't be able to change the way he feels abut you, even if he wants to. It will only continue to cause him and now you, more pain. In fact, the only chance he has with you is if he completely disappears out of your life as your "friend" and tells you that you either be his lover, or be gone for good. Some time apart may help to clarify your own feelings for him as well. Are you really sure you don't fell anything for him? Or do you only have eyes for Axl? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AxlsFavoriteRose Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 16 minutes ago, -W.A.R- said: i personally wouldn't have let get that far. meeting him for dinner is kinda leading him on, but again i know its a awkward position for you. pay your half of the bill atleast!!! don't skate out on him like "wow that steak was great....oh yeah, im not interested in you. k thx bye." great advice! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 37 minutes ago, -W.A.R- said: i personally wouldn't have let get that far. meeting him for dinner is kinda leading him on, but again i know its a awkward position for you. pay your half of the bill atleast!!! don't skate out on him like "wow that steak was great....oh yeah, im not interested in you. k thx bye." We have dinner together at least 3 times a week every week. Like I said he's my best friend. Well he was ? And yes I've always paid for my own half of the bill. I've never let a man pay for anything for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 29 minutes ago, Ace Spade said: Unless he's a Homosexual, there's no such thing as a Man that only wants to be "friends" with an attractive Woman. We 're just not wired that way, it's against our biology. "Friend zone" is a Psychological and spiritual killer to a Man if it goes on for too long. If it's been six years and he's finally telling you now, it's probably because he's at his breaking point. If you value his well being you need to immediately change the dynamics of the relationship. He won't be able to change the way he feels abut you, even if he wants to. It will only continue to cause him and now you, more pain. In fact, the only chance he has with you is if he completely disappears out of your life as your "friend" and tells you that you either be his lover, or be gone for good. Some time apart may help to clarify your own feelings for him as well. Are you really sure you don't fell anything for him? Or do you only have eyes for Axl? I'm definitely sure I don't have feelings for him. And as of now yes I only have eyes for Axl. He's the only man who has ever made me weak in the knees and given me those butterflies in my tummy. So I can't see that ever changing. My only hope is to fall in love with someone else one day as Axl will never know I exist. And that would have been ok cause I would have had my best friend by my side but now it's looking like I lost him too. ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chewbacca Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 Send him to the friendzone, of course. He will post everything about it on 9gag in week or so. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spunko12345 Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 Just now, Axl Roses Future Wife said: I'm definitely sure I don't have feelings for him. And as of now yes I only have eyes for Axl. He's the only man who has ever made me weak in the knees and given me those butterflies in my tummy. So I can't see that ever changing. My only hope is to fall in love with someone else one day as Axl will never know I exist. And that would have been ok cause I would have had my best friend by my side but now it's looking like I lost him too. ? Does he know all this about you and Axl? Just show him what you just wrote and he'll run a fucking mile trust me problem solved. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 1 minute ago, spunko12345 said: Does he know all this about you and Axl? Just show him what you just wrote and he'll run a fucking mile trust me problem solved. Yes he knows everything. He claims that I love him and I just don't know it yet and my love for Axl is just a way to distract myself from it because I'm too scared to have a "real" relationship. He couldn't be further from the truth. I've only fallen in love once before Axl and I know exactly what that feels like and it's nothing like what I feel for my best friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Graeme Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 16 minutes ago, Ace Spade said: Unless he's a Homosexual, there's no such thing as a Man that only wants to be "friends" with an attractive Woman. We 're just not wired that way, it's against our biology. "Friend zone" is a Psychological and spiritual killer to a Man if it goes on for too long. If it's been six years and he's finally telling you now, it's probably because he's at his breaking point. If you value his well being you need to immediately change the dynamics of the relationship. He won't be able to change the way he feels abut you, even if he wants to. It will only continue to cause him and now you, more pain. In fact, the only chance he has with you is if he completely disappears out of your life as your "friend" and tells you that you either be his lover, or be gone for good. Some time apart may help to clarify your own feelings for him as well. Are you really sure you don't fell anything for him? Or do you only have eyes for Axl? Would you point me to the peer-reviewed biological evidence for straight men being incapable of platonic friendships with (objectively) attractive women? In my experience, gender has very little to do with whether or not it's possible to hold down a friendship with someone of the opposite sex, it's much more to do with individual personality traits. I know girls, pretty girls too, who've been 'friendzoned' by straight single guys. This idea that all men seek to mindlessly fuck everything that moves, whereas women are passive entities who almost need to be tricked into any form of sexual activity seems to me to be based on a cultural generalisation that doesn't withstand much scrutiny when you start to talk to real people. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 And thanks for making fun of me. Just what I needed 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spunko12345 Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 Just now, Axl Roses Future Wife said: And thanks for making fun of me. Just what I needed Your welcome. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 16 minutes ago, Graeme said: Would you point me to the peer-reviewed biological evidence for straight men being incapable of platonic friendships with (objectively) attractive women? In my experience, gender has very little to do with whether or not it's possible to hold down a friendship with someone of the opposite sex, it's much more to do with individual personality traits. I know girls, pretty girls too, who've been 'friendzoned' by straight single guys. This idea that all men seek to mindlessly fuck everything that moves, whereas women are passive entities who almost need to be tricked into any form of sexual activity seems to me to be based on a cultural generalisation that doesn't withstand much scrutiny when you start to talk to real people. If I could like this I would Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 Well that was the worst experience of my life. Friendship is over. He stormed out of the restaurant and never wants to see or speak to me again. So yeah, I'm now balling my eyes out and drinking tequila. Fuck my life I destroy everything. I should come with a fucking warning label. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Graeme Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 50 minutes ago, spunko12345 said: Your welcome. *You're. Fuck's sake, Spunko. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-W.A.R- Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 (edited) 11 minutes ago, Axl Roses Future Wife said: Well that was the worst experience of my life. Friendship is over. He stormed out of the restaurant and never wants to see or speak to me again. So yeah, I'm now balling my eyes out and drinking tequila. Fuck my life I destroy everything. I should come with a fucking warning label. don't sweat it he went out to dinner with you 3 times a week and didn't get laid once...but yet still didn't realize you weren't interested in a romantic relationship Edited September 15, 2016 by -W.A.R- 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AxlsFavoriteRose Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 3 minutes ago, Graeme said: *You're. Fuck's sake, Spunko. lol that one annoys me almost as much as people who constantly spell lose as loose. and yes i have been called the grammar nazi which doesn't make sense because i am obviously breaking one of the grammer laws by usually not capitalizing when i should. oh and don't get me started on people who can't pronounce mischievous correctly! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
triad Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 11 minutes ago, Axl Roses Future Wife said: Well that was the worst experience of my life. Friendship is over. He stormed out of the restaurant and never wants to see or speak to me again. So yeah, I'm now balling my eyes out and drinking tequila. Fuck my life I destroy everything. I should come with a fucking warning label. You didn't destroy this friendship. He chose to respond to your honest wish to keep him as a dear friend by storming off. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AxlsFavoriteRose Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 (edited) not to stand up for the guy but he was probably horribly embarrassed and covered up his hurt by acting like a jerk. this is why most guys who are in the friend zone stay there because the fear of rejection is so great. a lot of women think men don't have feelings like that, but i know most people ( men and women alike ) are terrified of rejection. i know i am! on an entirely different note i keep meaning to mention that pic of Izzy you have is totally hot! Edited September 15, 2016 by AxlsFavoriteRose 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 Thanks guys. I do appreciate your support. I feel like a complete shit. And a dumbass. How did I not see this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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