Redhead74

i think people should show more respect to Red. she was a shitposter before it was cool

Horse shit. I've been at this way longer than Red. I'm still and always have been the only one that really wants the award also, so I'm not too sure it's cool.

oh it is definitely cool, just check the amount of self-promoted nominants in a shitposter thread.

Red is the last year proud award owner if im not mistaken?

but yes you are the one who worked hard to popularise it this year. i think you deserve to get it

Yeah, Red stole it from me last year. Still haven't quite forgiven the forum for that one. I hold grudges.

Sorry dude. I'm glad you don't hold it against me personally. That shows there's a real man in there.

Geeez! You guys are fucking hilarious!!!'

On topic: Yes I like auto flush toilets. I lived in Singapore for 6 years and honestly, people there seemed to have an aversion to flushing the toilet.

A more expensive restaurant or a fancy shopping centre always had auto flush toilets (obviously it's a problem) so that is where I would go if I really had to. Otherwise I'd wait until I got home.

As long as I get my fair share I'm OK with that.

Actually I take that back. That's not nice. I'm happy to be friends with everyone. I just want people to accepted for who I am, you know?

And that means accept me for the attention whore I am. Is that so hard?

Well, lets it not be said that you're unreasonable. Anyway, the other parties flittered away to go live her morning so I'm afraid peer mediation has broken down, thank you, that'll be £120 + VAT

Fuck you! Take your mediation and stick it up your ass! This mediation thing sucks. I prefer meditation. Those Buddhists only charge me 5 bucks for an hour and a half meditation with Geshe Doga FFS!

(A$5 = £2.67)

I was talking to my little niece the other day and they make em do this thing called 'peer mediation', where basically when two kids are having a barney a third one steps in and mediates, usually to the tune of 'Jaylen, if you stop pulling Chloes hair then Chloe promises to stop saying you're a poo poo brain. Can i be the forums peer mediation?

Red my dear, what is your issue, broadly speaking, with P4?

(see that? Mature as you like. Effortless too )

Hmmmm....let me see......I really enjoy the reaction I get from her.

Now now Kimberley, we're trying to be productive here Let me rephrase, what needs to happen so's that the two of you can become mates?

Hmmm.......that's tough.......that would be really............boring.

I think we can use the ol' 'let's just agree to disagree' philosophy here. It's more fun.

I was talking to my little niece the other day and they make em do this thing called 'peer mediation', where basically when two kids are having a barney a third one steps in and mediates, usually to the tune of 'Jaylen, if you stop pulling Chloes hair then Chloe promises to stop saying you're a poo poo brain. Can i be the forums peer mediation?

Red my dear, what is your issue, broadly speaking, with P4?

(see that? Mature as you like. Effortless too )

Hmmmm....let me see......I really enjoy the reaction I get from her.

So much for peer mediation

Give me a fucking minute to respond you impatient shit! I had to make myself another drink if you don't mind.

You're out of your mind. Literally. Keep obsessing over my picture, and convincing yourself it's normal. Freak.

Now stop using me to shit up this thread and making everything about you . That's what every other thread you post in is for.

Lol. That same old accusation. I've barely posted in the last 6 months.

Anyway, I've seen your pic now. Those sunglasses don't suit the shape of your face.

And seriously, hold off on the bleach.

i think people should show more respect to Red. she was a shitposter before it was cool

Always was a trendsetter. It wasn't for nothing that I got my pics in The Age, The Sydney Morning Herald and Trendspotter.

I search and I search but I still can't find pics of P4A.

Unfortunately I don't have to search as hard to find yours.

BTW, thanks for the nominations guys. I'm truly touched and humbled.

This is too funny.

What the fuck is an award based on a person's appearance when one of the nominees hasn't even been seen for years, if ever?

I'll tell you what's funny, the way you keep coming at me with this. The fact I was nominated for the same award as you, despite my lack for needy attention grabbing or having to subject everyone to some ridiculous picture of myself with every shit staining post is killing you. OMG, you're cracking me up, like this is some big deal!

I haven't posted a picture recently, whatever, I can't be bothered, but I have in the past. If you missed it too bad. Yeah, the forum did actually exist before you showed up. So get the fuck over it.

Hehehe! Ooooh, someone is taking this rather seriously.

I know this forum has been around a long time before I showed up. I imagine most of the posters here were still learning the alphabet the last time you posted a pic.

And yes you're right, it's not hard to find pics of me. I was in 3 national papers here recently, but being the attention whore I am I wasn't going to force the publisher to desist, was I? I'm just living my life and having a bit of fun in the process. I hope you're doing the same.

Just....wow. You're unraveling again, simply because you haven't seen my picture, and it looks like it may cause you to have another nervous breakdown. I don't think you have any idea how insane you're sounding right now, it's really sad. And I know the humane thing to do would be to feel sorry for you, but I just can't bring myself to do it. FYI, if you insist on continuing this charade and pretending your life is so fabulous, the last thing you should be doing is trying to convince the one person in this world who, I guarantee you, gives the least amount of shit.

You give the least amount of shit..............but still can't help but respond. Okie dokie.

And no, I'm not unravelling...........except from laughter.

And YES! It's TOTALLY INSANE that one would be mocking the credibility of an award for one's appearance where one of the nominees hasn't been seen for YEARS! Once again........gotcha!

But yeah, feel free to think I'm having a nervous breakdown.......I know you like to believe your own shit.

Peter Selllers was amazing. After I saw 'The Party' I was hooked. I know it wasn't his greatest work but the stylistic aspect of that film is what attracted me first.

I search and I search but I still can't find pics of P4A.

Unfortunately I don't have to search as hard to find yours.

BTW, thanks for the nominations guys. I'm truly touched and humbled.

This is too funny.

What the fuck is an award based on a person's appearance when one of the nominees hasn't even been seen for years, if ever?

I'll tell you what's funny, the way you keep coming at me with this. The fact I was nominated for the same award as you, despite my lack for needy attention grabbing or having to subject everyone to some ridiculous picture of myself with every shit staining post is killing you. OMG, you're cracking me up, like this is some big deal!

I haven't posted a picture recently, whatever, I can't be bothered, but I have in the past. If you missed it too bad. Yeah, the forum did actually exist before you showed up. So get the fuck over it.

Hehehe! Ooooh, someone is taking this rather seriously.

I know this forum has been around a long time before I showed up. I imagine most of the posters here were still learning the alphabet the last time you posted a pic.

And yes you're right, it's not hard to find pics of me. I was in 3 national papers here recently, but being the attention whore I am I wasn't going to force the publisher to desist, was I? I'm just living my life and having a bit of fun in the process. I hope you're doing the same.

I need pictures for the best looking categories.

Drunk poster? What the fuck!

You have that one in the bag. Be proud.

That's what the Use Your Illusion section is for.

I search and I search but I still can't find pics of P4A.

Unfortunately I don't have to search as hard to find yours.

BTW, thanks for the nominations guys. I'm truly touched and humbled.

This is too funny.

What the fuck is an award based on a person's appearance when one of the nominees hasn't even been seen for years, if ever?

nipple pasties? are you going to gay pride?

No. I'm going to wear them for my own personal pride.

I see the promotion at work giving me a little more confidence to get out there and make something happen in the dating / relationship world. I already took the chance of just randomly asking a listener for her number ( a HUGE step for me, trust me), and lo and behold, she gave it to me, and we've been texting back and forth a few days. Just small talk so far, but I'll see if she wants to go out on the weekend or something. That was simple enough. If I can do it once, why can't I do it again?

That's weird. You post in a thread for MAJOR LIFE CHANGES about getting the number from a random listener to your radio show and suggesting the possibility of a romantic relationship, yet you've never laid eyes on this person to know if you're physically attracted to them, and have only just been texting each other? Haven't actually had a verbal conversation? That's not a major life change. Not even close.

I love the IDEA of Christmas. But the reality as an adult is just ridiculous. Every year I have to think of something to buy those who pretty much buy whatever the fuck they want, whenever they want it. And with my family and the other half's family, that's a lot of people.

This year we just said "fuck it". No presents, let's just have a great day with great food (and wine!). No stress, just good times.

I need pictures for the best looking categories.

Drunk poster? What the fuck!

You have that one in the bag. Be proud.

That's what the Use Your Illusion section is for.

I search and I search but I still can't find pics of P4A.

Of course Dazey and Gracii are.

I'm excited but it also kind of sucks. I'm distracting myself with mygnrforum and Star Wars, but my presentation is coming up, and all I can honestly think about is whether or not I have enough money to get by/will I make enough money to get by, will I find a decent job in a decent time frame, do I have enough emergency fund, will my relationship survive this change,do I actually want it to survive the change, should I/can I start saving for retirement at this point, will I hate where I move, etc.?

I've been through a few rough years, first with work and then with my personal life and I was at times so worked up the doctor was prescribing anti depressants and certain drugs for panic attacks. Drinking has at times been a great coping mechanism too when feelings of isolation and not knowing how to resolve a situation overwhelmed me. But it's no answer, just a temporary escape from reality with a price to pay afterwards, every time. It's easy to let the anxiety overwhelm you but for me I felt that it was a case of needing to toughen up and start being the person I really wanted to be and not succumbing to the expectations that others had of me. This forum was actually a great help for me in one of the worst times of my life and I have made some great friends here as a result (anyone who says this place is just a waste of time doesn't understand much about the human psyche and the different ways we relate to one another).

The one thing I know for certain though is that wanting and needing some kind of guarantee that everything will be OK and knowing EXACTLY how that is going to eventuate is an impossible expectation. We all make plans and want them to resolve precisely as we imagined them but that rarely happens, if ever. Not one of us knows what's around the corner tomorrow, be it good or bad. But I do also know that unless you're participating in really self destructive behaviour and you're taking every day in a positive step, TRYING to succeed and make your life better, then you will be FINE!

If you make genuine efforts to have stability, you'll have it. If you make efforts to nurture and respect the relationships you value, they will grow. You pretty much get back based on how much you put in. Just don't waste any of your precious time with worrying about it.

Can I just ask why French people love scarves so damn much? Some of them even seem to wear them in the summer.

The French are all about accessorising.

I pity the woman who wants bigger breasts so much that she is willing to undergo highly invasive surgery ,for the sake that they will just be bigger.

Having big boobs isn't easy. You can't wear anything strapless, backless or halter-neck. No stick-on bras for you. Button-down shirts always gape open. You have to pick really well fitting clothes so you don't look fat. Then there's the backache. Big bras are expensive. The judgement from others when you're wearing a summer top, which happens to show off your cleavage, but the world thinks you're trying to show off.

And then growing huge boobs during puberty is one of the most horrible times of my life. Mine started growing age 10, so by the time I was 12-13 they were HUGE and being at school, classmates really lacked the tact to just ignore them. The girl with the biggest boobs in school was a worthwhile topic of conversation. I remember one lad asking "what does my mum think of them?!" Why should my mum's opinion matter?! (Mum didn't make it any easier, but that's a different story for my therapist).

And then at college, this gay guy thought he was at liberty to grab or touch my boobs as and when he saw fit, which was all the time. He stopped pretty suddenly after he found out I'd met my now husband.

I think many people equate big boobs with a big personality, which just isn't me. I tried to be that big personality who could joke along with everyone else about my chest, and I started to believe that the only value I had was that my chest was abnormally big.

Anyone who is willing to pay for those sort of experiences is probably better off spending their money elsewhere. (I'll take a victims' donation )

Now, I know you've all seen my photos, a few of you have met me, and you'd say "Grace, you're boobs aren't that huge". They used to be when I was younger. I've lost loads of weight since.

I feel your pain there Gracii. Those kinds of experiences at school are just awful....to the point where we often get complexes that carry on for years afterwards. I had the opposite problem, I was skinny, flat chested, fair skinned and freckled throughout school and whilst I wasn't teased or mocked as such because I was pretty much friends with everyone, I definitely felt the odd one out, especially when it came to boys. And when you're that small and flat push up bras don't really work, they just look dumb and very unnatural.

When I was younger I contemplated getting a boob job but since I could never afford it, it never happened. Now I'm really glad I didn't because I like myself exactly as I am. I wouldn't exchange mine for any amount of money, let alone actually pay a doctor money to put silicon blobs in my body. I love not having to wear a bra if I don't want to and I think for the rest of my shape I have the perfect size. It did however, take a good 15-20 years to reach that conclusion.

The whole Black Friday epidemic is disgusting and humanity should be ashamed of themselves. Morons acting like assholes just to save a few dollars. It's pure idiocy and people who participate in the frenzy aspect of it by lining up and stampeding stores are douchebags in my opinion. People will spend hours upon hours waiting in line for this shit but people won't spend 5 minutes donating blood or helping in a soup kitchen for an hour or whatever. Black Friday madness is a black mark on humanity in my opinion.

Yknow some people who dont earn a lot look forward to that day so they can buy shit that they otherwise couldnt afford, more power to them, i mean everybody jumps on working class folkses back going on about how they dont live within their means...whilst at the same time looking down on them for taking full advantage of shit like this.

I don't think there's any criticism of low income earners getting some good deals on things they otherwise couldn't afford, we do after all live in a consumerist society where EVERYONE wants certain things, and those who can't afford the original price tag have no choice but to capitalise on sales, and there's nothing wrong with that......the human race has always wanted to own things ever since the beginning of civilisation. I see the issue being that most stores have huge sales at various times throughout the year, there's usually stocktake sales at the beginning of the year, 'End of Financial Year' sales mid year, sales prior to Christmas and god knows what else....but it just seems really sad that on a day that is supposed to be about showing gratitude towards one family and friends by spending time with them (it's not a holiday here in Oz but I interpret the point of it as a very non-materialistic/non consumerist celebration) the very people who should be rejoicing in that are the ones who don't.

It's one day for Christ's sake to forget about 'stuff'.

No I won't. And no I don't.

Got a sick buttonup from Guess, marked down from $80 to $55. I should've bought more there.

That's pretty much 30% off which is not a great saving. You'll find better deals than that online every week of the year. Figure out your measurements, read the size charts, learn the returns policy (which are nowadays fantastic) and then reap the rewards ALL YEAR ROUND. You need to know the websites to go to, but they're there. The US has the most amazing online shopping.......I can't believe all of you aren't capitalising on it.

H&M had jack shit, which is what to expect 4/5 times you go there. There were some things I wanted there but the poor quality of the items + how little money I was saving on them made the monstrous line not worth it.

The thing with H&M is that they're already beyond cheap so at sale time it's just not substantial. Consider that as a shop where you can go all year round and get good deals and forget it if you want a discount. As a female I'm really only knowledgable on the women's stuff which I can't fault for quality based on the price. Having said that I'm also working in fashion so I often alter things to fit me better and will happily do that considering what I'm paying.

I've Just Seen a Face.

Great choice. I believe that song has served you well over the years, so don't stop now, right?

Especially when it's the most special face you'll ever set your eyes on.

^^^^ "You're soooooo vain........"