Chris1989

Who doesn't want to go on Facebook at see a whole stream of AI generated pictures of people who have supposedly made amazing sculptures and nobody likes them, so will you? Or the people apparently scraping barnacles off of an AI whale? Or the triplet 1 year olds whose birthday it is? What amazes me is how many stupid old people love this crap.

Were you born in Argentina to a German father?

Fair play! No chance of me fitting in my suit and I only married 5 years ago! I'm on the right track to get back there though...

Yes, I absolutely would. I learned a lot from my last relationship and know what made me a good husband, and I know what made me a bad husband. I also know type of person does and doesn't work as a partner. All of the issues that I had previously with myself, and with my choice of partner, are not evident in my current relationship. She knows absolutely everything about me, and I know everything about her.

My divorce can proceed to the next step in 2 hours time. That'll be the 20 week stage passed. It's now time to resubmit and then once approved it's 6 weeks until application can go in for the final confirmation. It seems like it'll be completed in the first week of the new year based on the delays I have experienced so far.

Ok, how do you expect Starmer to magically find the extra staff, funding etc to change that in the space of a few months? The NHS is a huge ship to turn around.

My future step-daughter is, and I see the trauma and crap she goes through every day purely to express who she is inside. I am also the father of a biological female, and I therefore also want to protect womens spaces. It's not difficult to have a foot in both camps. Whether you think that being transgender is a mental illness or it's a genuine condition, it's wrong to try and destroy everybody. My future step-daughter is seeing professionals. She's having to wait years to get any kind of treatment. No, it's not coming from her Mum like so many believe. She's not a predator. She's a 13 year old who has been struggling for years with her male body.

I know my girlfriend is the one. She's absolutely 100% no doubt about it the one. I've thought it since the first month, and told myself over and over again that it can't be, and I am just on a high at having a functioning relationship after a decade of being mistreated. Nope. She is actually the one. We had a cancer scare in September and the thought of losing her was devastating. With my wife it always felt like I had married a work colleague with benefits. We were completing the relationship to do list. Now I know what people mean about marrying your best friend.

I'm feeling really down today. I haven't been exercising regularly since 2023 due to the divorce, house move, childcare etc. Right now I need to clean and paint my garage before I can get my bike and weights equipment back, but I have an exam on Tuesday for a course I've hated in recent months and haven't wanted to do for 6 months. Basically no time for me. Only time for my job, my house and my daughter. I'm 236lbs when two years ago I was 200lbs. I'm an absolute fat mess right now and my "comebacks" only last a few days at best. I'm just mentally and physically drained.

I'd love to watch it but I am looking after my daughter and that isn't good for getting mates round for food and drinks.

Explain exactly what you mean by 2 tier. The system that the Tory gov put in place over 12 years is somehow his fault? Countries are like big ships. They take a long time to turn around. It's exactly why I hate 4 year terms. It's impossible to make true change in 4 years, and nobody wants to risk something that costs a lot over 4 years but pays itself back over 7 years because if they get voted out the other party claims the credit.

I'd still rather have Starmer than Boris or Rishi, and definitely over Farage.

Apparently she had a lovely time. I don't doubt it. The bloke might be as wonderful as she says he is, but it's been 2 weeks. That is not enough time to introduce a man and play happy families. I've also had a torrent of crap about how I cannot control my anger, I made her do things that aren't who she really is because of it etc. Make sense of that. You're supposedly scared of somebody, and all they've asked of you is to be honest and since you've told them you aren't interested in anybody, respect the marriage and don't go off with anybody until the divorce is submitted. Yup, you go fuck the guy who you've said for months isn't anything other than a friend. Apparently that's what I made her do because I am so horrible. The crap she comes out with is bonkers. Neither my current girlfriend or my best female friend (known each other 20 years) can believe the bullshit.

Well my daughter has just told me that she is spending the afternoon with mummy and dean. Dean is apparently her new boyfriend who she's been with for two weeks, and known socially for three weeks. She has no idea who this man truly is, and claims they have something special and he's perfectly safe, he's a decent respectful guy etc etc. No, you've known him a few weeks. It takes far longer than that to know if they are a long term love and should be playing Lego on the floor, going on family outings and generally being a faux father. We have a parenting agreement of 3 months before the child meets a partner. I waited three months. I did everything by the book to protect my child.

I hate my ex so much. She's basically stopping me seeing my daughter on her birthday as she's refusing to meet me in a public place. She can't understand why I don't want to drop her at her house. Hmm. How about: She's hinted at domestic violence She's hinted at parental neglect She's deliberately hid condoms around the house because "it amuses me" that it upsets me. She's lied about men being interested and gaslit me for a decade Of course I don't want to put myself in a place where she can claim I abused her at her own house or something. Two weeks ago when I was trying to move out she stood blocking the bedroom door and was refusing to let me leave. Pretty weird behaviour for somebody who is so scared of me. I swear she was trying to make me put hands on her to physically move me out of the way.