Life is so fucking dull.

[DirtyDeeds]

Actually, Arnold, I would also look deep into yourself and find out if there is at least partially sincerity for wanting what you say you want in a life-long time frame. And it's okay if that's it. But if that's it, then I would begin actively researching alternative sorts of lifestyles. Maybe you don't ever want children and you don't believe in marriage on principle or believe it's not for you. Well, that's fine. Maybe in addition to that you also don't want to work in a traditional job/career. Maybe that's not your motivation. Maybe you don't want to spend a life moving up the ladder. Maybe money doesn't truly have value to you. Maybe it's very important to you. I don't know. Do you know? Do some reflection and be honest with yourself. Maybe what you really want is to live on some sort of hippie commune or something. Maybe you want to be some kind of a nomad, living life like it is a continual adventure, only seeking temporary employment in various places to fund the rest of your journey. Maybe you want to be some sort of monk of the Earth (and I don't mean a religious monk, but I think you know what I mean). Maybe you highly value money but you like your independence from a wife and kids-type structure, and you don't want a boss or to work regular hours. Okay, you'll have to get a little more innovative here, but come up with your own sort of career. Freelance something or another. You'll have to get out of your apartment to start meeting people who can get you the connections you'll need, though. Maybe you want to spend your life in the Peace Corps or something. Who knows? There is not one way to happiness and fulfillment. Not everyone needs a wife and kids to be happy. Some do. Some are not motivated by money or career advancement at all. That's what some live for. Some people seek happiness by accumulating wealth. Some seek happiness by having very limited or no real possessions. Some people live as a family. Some people live in community. Some people live as hermits! Any of these people can be happy, but only if they are honest with themselves and do what works for them. What you are telling us is that what you're doing right now is not working for you. You're unhappy. You want to be happy. Search deep and be honest about what you envision yourself as that will make you happy.

[rock4eva]

Actually, Arnold, I would also look deep into yourself and find out if there is at least partially sincerity for wanting what you say you want in a life-long time frame. And it's okay if that's it. But if that's it, then I would begin actively researching alternative sorts of lifestyles. Maybe you don't ever want children and you don't believe in marriage on principle or believe it's not for you. Well, that's fine. Maybe in addition to that you also don't want to work in a traditional job/career. Maybe that's not your motivation. Maybe you don't want to spend a life moving up the ladder. Maybe money doesn't truly have value to you. Maybe it's very important to you. I don't know. Do you know? Do some reflection and be honest with yourself. Maybe what you really want is to live on some sort of hippie commune or something. Maybe you want to be some kind of a nomad, living life like it is a continual adventure, only seeking temporary employment in various places to fund the rest of your journey. Maybe you want to be some sort of monk of the Earth (and I don't mean a religious monk, but I think you know what I mean). Maybe you highly value money but you like your independence from a wife and kids-type structure, and you don't want a boss or to work regular hours. Okay, you'll have to get a little more innovative here, but come up with your own sort of career. Freelance something or another. You'll have to get out of your apartment to start meeting people who can get you the connections you'll need, though. Maybe you want to spend your life in the Peace Corps or something. Who knows? There is not one way to happiness and fulfillment. Not everyone needs a wife and kids to be happy. Some do. Some are not motivated by money or career advancement at all. That's what some live for. Some people seek happiness by accumulating wealth. Some seek happiness by having very limited or no real possessions. Some people live as a family. Some people live in community. Some people live as hermits! Any of these people can be happy, but only if they are honest with themselves and do what works for them. What you are telling us is that what you're doing right now is not working for you. You're unhappy. You want to be happy. Search deep and be honest about what you envision yourself as that will make you happy.

You're a politician, right?

[arnold layne]

Thanks. I calmed down now.

[wasted]

It's all about having a positive attitude to doing nothing.

[arnold layne]

cutting back on porn is the most bullshit thing i've ever heard.

porn is great!

don't listen to them nate.

It's either porn or I start drinking everyday. For my own safety I choose porn.

choose anything other than lying about GNR

For someone who went to college at the age of eleven you struggle with the meanings between "lying" and "having an unfavorable opinion".

[Guest Broskirose]

facepalm

[highvoltage]

For someone who went to college at the age of eleven you struggle with the meanings between "lying" and "having an unfavorable opinion".

no, i'm one of the few here that fully grasps the difference between fact and opinion.

have as many uninformed opinions as you want.

See MSL, this is why I have zero sympathy for you. Thread had nothing to do with you. You came in, tried to make it about you.

And you wonder why people insult you.

[highvoltage]

HV -

The thread was about Arnold, not me. My reply was about Arnold, not me.

Then, Arnold tried to make it about me. Which is fine. Doesn't bother me.

But if it bothers you, that's fine as well. Just don't blame me for something I didn't do.

Also, nowhere have I ever wondered WHY people insult me. If anything, repeatedly, I've explained why they insult me. It's human nature to personally attack someone who just proved you wrong. So I know why people do it, I just don't know why it's allowed to happen so often when it's clearly against the rules. Especially when I would be immediately suspended if I said even 5% of what is said about me to others.

I have on several occasions spoken in support of the premise that the bitter ex-fans lash out at Axl because they are upset about other things in their life. Arnold's behavior certainly seems to fit the mold I have described. That is why when he speaks about how miserable he is, I ask him to seek professional help for his problems rather than continue his pattern of not seeking help and instead using this site to bash Axl Rose as his therapeutic release.

But if this site is in favor of mentally ill users lying about the band to relieve themselves of unrelated grief, that is fine. This site is allowed to be in favor of whatever it wants.

All I can do is try my best to present accurate information and to follow the rules. I have listened to any and all requests and will continue to do so.

Why do we need the essay length response where you talk about yourself some more?

Because just like in every other thread, you want people to pick your post apart and respond to you line by line so that you can have another 20 pages of discussion about you.

You posted a reply that you KNEW would elicit a certain response from arnold, that would then lead us to this point. It's tiresome and I'm over it - so is everybody else.

[Guest Satanisk_Slakt]

See MSL, this is why I have zero sympathy for you. Thread had nothing to do with you. You came in, tried to make it about you.

Very true. I said the same somewhere yesterday. Every single thread he post in, he comes in and try to make them about himself instead of the actual topic.

[highvoltage]

See MSL, this is why I have zero sympathy for you. Thread had nothing to do with you. You came in, tried to make it about you.

Very true. I said the same somewhere yesterday. Every single thread he post in, he comes in and try to make them about himself instead of the actual topic.

bullshit. 100% complete bullshit. i come in to every thread to make the thread about THE TRUTH.

inevitably, someone then personally attacks me when the truth contradicts with whatever nonsense they posted and then i'm forced to defend myself.

but i am not the one making shit about me. it's you guys that do it. i am VERY happy to just stick to the topics. i have NO desire to argue about my weight, my history as a leaker, etc. it's boring. it's old.

Holy crap, just stop already.

[Guest Broskirose]

Can someone make one of these about MSL? http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/12932403/a-day-in-the-life

[FuddMckagan]

Can someone make one of these about MSL? http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/12932403/a-day-in-the-life

[Johnny Drama]

See MSL, this is why I have zero sympathy for you. Thread had nothing to do with you. You came in, tried to make it about you.

Very true. I said the same somewhere yesterday. Every single thread he post in, he comes in and try to make them about himself instead of the actual topic.

bullshit. 100% complete bullshit. i come in to every thread to make the thread about THE TRUTH.

inevitably, someone then personally attacks me when the truth contradicts with whatever nonsense they posted and then i'm forced to defend myself.

but i am not the one making shit about me. it's you guys that do it. i am VERY happy to just stick to the topics. i have NO desire to argue about my weight, my history as a leaker, etc. it's boring. it's old.

Holy crap, just stop already.

Lmfao

[Dazey]

cutting back on porn is the most bullshit thing i've ever heard.

porn is great!

don't listen to them nate.

Yeah Nate, listen to Broski the love doctor!

Perhaps he just wants somebody to tell him that there is nothing wrong with him and it is perfectly alright to feel the way he does.

Well there clearly is and it's not or he wouldn't be bothered by it! If there was no problem this wouldn't be the millionth thread across two forums about, hating women, wanting to kill himself or porn. Dude needs good advice but he's been given that for years on here now and seems to have to interest in following any of it.

choose anything other than lying about GNR

Not sounding like a broken record there at all fella. Didn't you forget to call him a "bitter ex fan^TM" also though?

Edited June 19, 2012 by Dazey

[Guest Len B'stard]

To really be able to make the statement that life is boring you actually have to've lived somewhat. Get a piece of paper and write down all the shit you've done in your life that you feel worthy of note. Then take all the people you rate or admire and write down what they achieved in their life that you feel to be of note. If the lists don't tally up, you got some work to do.

I'll never understand people that are bored and just stay in and don't do shit and say it's cuz they're bored and everything sucks. Mate, if you're bored then ANYTHING will do, go out with your mates, get ratted, do ANYTHING, go through the paper and go see a gig or a play or a movie. You can't be bothered or you don't want to? Well that basically translates as 'i want to be bored'. Go to gigs of bands you've never heard of, go to the wrong side of town and get some mates and go to clubs you've never been to, start a band, write a book, it's one thing to say that life is shit and boring it's another thing to continue allowing it to be, at that point, it's your fault.

Honestly, my mum and dad had a go at me? Fuckssake man, how old are you?!?!

bullshit. 100% complete bullshit. i come in to every thread to make the thread about THE TRUTH.

YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!!!!!

Anyone else think MSL looks kinda like Dave Lee Travis?

The Hairy Cornflake Headlock!

Edited June 19, 2012 by sugaraylen

[wasted]

this thread is awesome.

[Dazey]

HV -

If everyone is tired and over it, I would love that. I wish that were the case.

I would LOVE for people to focus on my ARGUMENTS instead of focusing on ME.

You question why I wrote an "essay" about myself, but all I did was answer YOUR post. Just like before that, I answered Arnold's.

It's very simple. If people stick to the facts instead of taking things off topic when proven wrong, there would be no problem. I certainly would not complain. I don't come here to talk about myself. If I want to do that, I can post on mistersaintlaurent.com. I come here to talk about GNR.

So maybe the real issue is so many of your users being allowed to personally attack me when the facts are not on their side?

Oh FFS listen to what HV has to say and shut up you tart!

Edited June 19, 2012 by Dazey

[Lithium]

lol @ the people actually posting serious replies to this thread.

Edited June 19, 2012 by Lithium

[Johnny Drama]

To really be able to make the statement that life is boring you actually have to've lived somewhat. Get a piece of paper and write down all the shit you've done in your life that you feel worthy of note. Then take all the people you rate or admire and write down what they achieved in their life that you feel to be of note. If the lists don't tally up, you got some work to do.

I'll never understand people that are bored and just stay in and don't do shit and say it's cuz they're bored and everything sucks. Mate, if you're bored then ANYTHING will do, go out with your mates, get ratted, do ANYTHING, go through the paper and go see a gig or a play or a movie. You can't be bothered or you don't want to? Well that basically translates as 'i want to be bored'. Go to gigs of bands you've never heard of, go to the wrong side of town and get some mates and go to clubs you've never been to, start a band, write a book, it's one thing to say that life is shit and boring it's another thing to continue allowing it to be, at that point, it's your fault.

Honestly, my mum and dad had a go at me? Fuckssake man, how old are you?

Exactly. Nates problem is that he acts like a moaning twat all the time but then revels in the shittiness of his life despite all the good advice others ( myself included) give him. And he does nothing to make himself happy bar jacking his hot, spicy boner, drinking, doing drugs and staying in his room permanently like last nights fucking leftovers on the fridge.

And shut the fuck up, MSL. When a mod is telling you to put a dick in it, PUT A DICK IN IT!

lol @ the people actually posting serious replies to this thread.

And what should we be posting then?

[Lithium]

lol @ the people actually posting serious replies to this thread.

And what should we be posting then?

Not posting in this thread would be the best thing to do. Am I the only one who remember when his username here was Rock 'n' Roll, and he used to make threads with the exact same whiny content as this one? We all tried to help him several times back then, but he obviously didn't listen to any of our advice. He did the same over at GNFNR, and now he's doing it here again. I think he's looking for sympathy and for us to care enough to give him serious advice about his life or he's just been trolling the whole time and he's actually a normal guy. I'm guessing the former, but either way he's just looking for attention.

[Johnny Drama]

lol @ the people actually posting serious replies to this thread.

And what should we be posting then?

Not posting in this thread would be the best thing to do. Am I the only one who remember when his username here was Rock 'n' Roll, and he used to make threads with the exact same whiny content as this one? We all tried to help him several times back then, but he obviously didn't listen to any of our advice. He did the same over at GNFNR, and now he's doing it here again. I think he's looking for sympathy and for us to care enough to give him serious advice about his life or he's just been trolling the whole time and he's actually a normal guy. I'm guessing the former, but either way he's just looking for attention.

Well hes actually being pretty normal of late and hes reverted back to his old self, hence why I posted. Before his current OK.phase he used to shit me to no end on GNFNR with his no life crap and hes doing it again. In short I agree with you about 90% .

[Randy Lahey]

Arnold's threads are awesome. He's one of the best posters on the GNR forums.

[Johnny Drama]

Yes, as long as hes not being a sexist pig that blames women for everything wrong in his life.

[Randy Lahey]

Yes, as long as hes not being a sexist pig that blames women for everything wrong in his life.

Those are some of his best threads.

[Johnny Drama]

Yes, as long as hes not being a sexist pig that blames women for everything wrong in his life.

Those are some of his best threads.

Well yes, I agree, but when it gets repetitive its fucking disturbing and it wouldn't be tolerated if he directed his vitriol towards black or gay people, even jokingly.