People who overstep their boundaries.

[GUNSNROSES513]

I walked to my grandmas to go get my car, because i have family staying at my house and they took it there. I get there, stay for a few hours and leave... They order me to go get my mom gas. They didn't ask me, they told me... My grandma also TOLD me.. They drove it, they get gas, i shouldnt have too, but thats besides the point. Its not their car, its my parents, they aren't my parents they don't tell me what to do. I drove home and DIDNT get gas because they ordered me too, my mom said i can go get gas and she'll even give me money later but i wasn't feeling good and didn't feel like going back out, it wasn't about the money. They just found out i didn't put gas in the car and they started giving me a hard time, my aunts like "you live here for free you cant put gas in the car"... So i look her in the eye say its really between me and my father, not you". It shut her right up, she didn't know what to say. I don't pay rent, but i help out around the house, i do all the trash, yardwork, take care of our cat, dishes, i'll make breakfeast..I help out a lot. She tried changing the subject and asked me to make her coffee. Its no big deal but every time they come out they order me what to do.. "put your shoes in your bedroom, put your gloves in you room".. .What the fuck, your guests in my house, don't tell me what to do. Mean while they pay for everything for their son in college, while he partys his ass.

they do shit like this all the time. My parents dont tell their son what to do. It's not their place.

Edited December 28, 2013 by GUNSNROSES513

[DangerousCurves]

Really?

[Rovim]

Maybe it's time to think about getting your own place man.

[The Sandman]

Often family feel that they can chip in - it's often preferable when they don't, as it's inevitably a source of tension. I'd just ride it out - your parents know what you do for them.

[DR DOOM]

Get over it, go out with somebody else.

[GUNSNROSES513]

Often family feel that they can chip in - it's often preferable when they don't, as it's inevitably a source of tension. I'd just ride it out - your parents know what you do for them.

yep.

I love my aunt and uncle they they are very intense. I was on this site when it all went down so i posted it here just to vent.... It pisses me off, we go out to eat having a good time... My uncle starts lecturing me in front of everything about how me and my brother bicker sometimes, he's done two different occasions.

Edited December 29, 2013 by GUNSNROSES513

[Ace Nova]

Seems strange to me....I was brought up to respect my elders, especially family members and wouldn't think twice about getting them gas....actually, would be happy to.

[Forsaken]

Not that it's any of my business, but do you have a job man? If so, i'd consider getting the fuck out of there and getting my own place. Just a one bedroom apartment dude, it's all you'll need. First decision I made when i was 18, have never looked back.

[Broskirose]

There's only one thing to do. Kill them. Kill them all.

[Mr. Dude]

Not that it's any of my business, but do you have a job man? If so, i'd consider getting the fuck out of there and getting my own place. Just a one bedroom apartment dude, it's all you'll need. First decision I made when i was 18, have never looked back.

This.

[dalsh327]

If you know your aunt and uncle are going to be a certain way, they're not going to change.

A lot of times "free" can be used against you. If your name isn't on the mortgage or title, it's not your house.

[wasted]

if u have your own place it s a like sanctuary. then you can deal with the general idiots out there knowing you can just go home. you can smile and make nice. maybe even go round criticizing other people. thats a lifestyle. go round to others places and ruin their day. then go back to your life. undo the top of the shower gel, dip their tooth brushes in the toilet. it's like a hobby.

[Gracii Guns]

I think all the best advice here has already been given, and you know what to do.

I'm just going to add that as the eldest of 4 kids, plus two step-siblings, one of whom is 11 years younger than I; it can be very easy for some people to be tempted to be maternal over younger family members. It feels natural and can be really hard to unlearn, even with more distant relations such as nieces and nephews. Your aunt may not really want to boss you around, but she may feel that her relationship with your parents allows her to get all superior on yo' ass. That's no good, so you treated her respectfully and said the right thing.

[wasted]

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[AxlisOld]

You've made a couple threads like this before, and the conclusion I draw, is that your family sucks, and you should move out.