soon Posted August 31, 2020 Posted August 31, 2020 29 minutes ago, Gracii Guns said: Dudes, once or twice (OK, exactly twice) in my marriage, a guy has told me that I'm beautiful/pretty. It's very nice, but I'm married and am good at giving off cold vibes. Is saying just "thank you" enough? If I'm being honest, one of these guys was cute, but I was reluctant to repay the complement, because healthy boy/girl friendships don't involve that conversation. Is there ever a good way to tell a guy he's good looking? Do I break it down into "I like your glasses"? I think "thank you" is plenty, if they already know you are married. But what do I know Or threaten to have your husband beat them up for scandalizing you! 1 Quote
SoulMonster Posted September 1, 2020 Posted September 1, 2020 9 hours ago, Gracii Guns said: Dudes, once or twice (OK, exactly twice) in my marriage, a guy has told me that I'm beautiful/pretty. It's very nice, but I'm married and am good at giving off cold vibes. Is saying just "thank you" enough? If I'm being honest, one of these guys was cute, but I was reluctant to repay the complement, because healthy boy/girl friendships don't involve that conversation. Is there ever a good way to tell a guy he's good looking? Do I break it down into "I like your glasses"? "Thank you" is enough. If you feel confident that it won't be misconstrued and lead to awkwardness then you can certainly compliment guys however you like. Probably more safe to go the "I like your glasses" route than "Your muscles make me horny" but you sort of have to feel what is okay or not yourself. But in most cases "thank you" is both enough and safest. You don't want to lead anyone on, right. 1 Quote
Destiny Posted September 17, 2020 Posted September 17, 2020 On 9/2/2020 at 11:31 AM, Ace Nova said: Oh lawd...the accuracy So many times I thought "whew, I dodged a bullet there!" 1 Quote
Gracii Guns Posted September 23, 2020 Posted September 23, 2020 On 9/17/2020 at 7:49 AM, Destiny said: Oh lawd...the accuracy So many times I thought "whew, I dodged a bullet there!" Some guys age really well though. I'm almost 31. While I consider that a fairly young age, I've noted that there are some good looking guys with grey hair. Quote
Gibson87 Posted October 3, 2020 Posted October 3, 2020 Found out from a friend that my ex is with someone else. That's always fun to hear 1 Quote
soon Posted October 3, 2020 Posted October 3, 2020 2 minutes ago, Gibson_Guy87 said: Found out from a friend that my ex is with someone else. That's always fun to hear Sucks! I still share a streaming service with my ex and sometimes I happen to see that she watches The Notebook and similar romance stories like everyday. Makes me so happy that shes love sick. 4 Quote
Gracii Guns Posted November 7, 2020 Posted November 7, 2020 Sixth wedding anniversary! It just keeps getting better. 3 1 Quote
Axls Rocket Queen Posted November 12, 2020 Posted November 12, 2020 On 11/7/2020 at 3:54 PM, Gracii Guns said: Sixth wedding anniversary! It just keeps getting better. Congrats! 1 Quote
SoulMonster Posted November 12, 2020 Posted November 12, 2020 On 11/7/2020 at 4:54 PM, Gracii Guns said: Sixth wedding anniversary! It just keeps getting better. That's great. I've been married twelve years now. It's never been difficult, and that says a lot about how great my wife is. 1 Quote
spunko12345 Posted November 12, 2020 Posted November 12, 2020 3 hours ago, SoulMonster said: That's great. I've been married twelve years now. It's never been difficult, and that says a lot about how great my wife is. Your wife is on another forum right now saying. 3 hours ago, SoulMonster said: That's great. I've been married twelve years now. It's never been difficult, except he becomes distant and preoccupied, spending hours bickering with a bald man from northern England. I feel like there are three people in our relationship. 3 Quote
arnold layne Posted December 7, 2020 Posted December 7, 2020 I had the secks once. It was cool. 1 Quote
Gracii Guns Posted December 7, 2020 Posted December 7, 2020 16 hours ago, arnold layne said: I had the secks once. It was cool. WELCOME BACK NATE! 1 Quote
Gracii Guns Posted December 23, 2020 Posted December 23, 2020 Are any other married people jealous of the folks who had microweddings this year? 100% of wedding stress is caused by guest politics. And one has to invite their family to their wedding. For us that included the two aunts who didn't get on, my overbearing grandmother and that's not even mentioning his side of the family... I'd loved to have a good reason like that not to invite them. Quote
Dazey Posted December 23, 2020 Posted December 23, 2020 1 hour ago, Gracii Guns said: Are any other married people jealous of the folks who had microweddings this year? 100% of wedding stress is caused by guest politics. And one has to invite their family to their wedding. For us that included the two aunts who didn't get on, my overbearing grandmother and that's not even mentioning his side of the family... I'd loved to have a good reason like that not to invite them. One of the reasons I'm glad that I fucked off to the US for mine and invited three people from my side. Quote
SoulMonster Posted December 24, 2020 Posted December 24, 2020 8 hours ago, Gracii Guns said: Are any other married people jealous of the folks who had microweddings this year? 100% of wedding stress is caused by guest politics. And one has to invite their family to their wedding. For us that included the two aunts who didn't get on, my overbearing grandmother and that's not even mentioning his side of the family... I'd loved to have a good reason like that not to invite them. Microwedding is a wedding with only good people invited? If so, we had a microwedding ourselves. Quote
action Posted December 24, 2020 Posted December 24, 2020 9 hours ago, Gracii Guns said: Are any other married people jealous of the folks who had microweddings this year? 100% of wedding stress is caused by guest politics. And one has to invite their family to their wedding. For us that included the two aunts who didn't get on, my overbearing grandmother and that's not even mentioning his side of the family... I'd loved to have a good reason like that not to invite them. My main wedding was a microwedding. we only invited a handfull of people on our main wedding to being with. it was really "our" day, with our son (yea yea, he was born out of sin). I guess we saw no benefit in having tens of profiteers boozing up our first savings and ending up not enjoying any of it anyway. marriage (the ceremony and ensuing party) is just a lot of bollox really. it's turned from a romantic event in this economical vehicle that drains your capital like snow for the sun. When I'm not reminded I married, I'm tending to even forget the day. But it's the days since then, and before, that I'll never forget, and that ultimately count. I rather have many memorable days, than one day where I didn't even enjoy myself. 2 Quote
Sosso Posted December 25, 2020 Posted December 25, 2020 On 12/24/2020 at 8:04 AM, SoulMonster said: Microwedding is a wedding with only good people invited? If so, we had a microwedding ourselves. I wonder how a micro wedding night would look like. Quote
Dazey Posted December 25, 2020 Posted December 25, 2020 1 hour ago, Sosso said: I wonder how a micro wedding night would look like. It was fucking cold okay? 3 Quote
arnold layne Posted December 26, 2020 Posted December 26, 2020 If my dick ever stops working or if my liver is about to blow out, just put a bullet in my head. Quote
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ssiscool Posted June 1, 2022 Posted June 1, 2022 Ok married people, what's the stupidest argument you've got in with your spouse/significant other? Around 18 months ago my wife got fed up of my dvds/books piling up on a radiator so said for me to put a shelf up. I bought the shelf, put it up, put it up a second time after I messed up 1st time. And all was well. Around 2 weeks ago she randomly cleared all my stuff off said shelf and replaced with 2 Yankee candles and 2 oil burners and told me I'm no longer to put dvds/books on it. Fast forward 2 weeks and we're still arguing over this shelf and I've decided I'm going to take it down so it doesn't cause any more arguments. As such we are now into a deeper argument all over a God damn shelf. 2 Quote
Sweersa Posted June 1, 2022 Posted June 1, 2022 On 12/25/2020 at 10:40 PM, arnold layne said: If my dick ever stops working or if my liver is about to blow out, just put a bullet in my head. Talk to a penis doctor before a bullet. Quote
janrichmond Posted June 1, 2022 Posted June 1, 2022 7 hours ago, ssiscool said: Ok married people, what's the stupidest argument you've got in with your spouse/significant other? Around 18 months ago my wife got fed up of my dvds/books piling up on a radiator so said for me to put a shelf up. I bought the shelf, put it up, put it up a second time after I messed up 1st time. And all was well. Around 2 weeks ago she randomly cleared all my stuff off said shelf and replaced with 2 Yankee candles and 2 oil burners and told me I'm no longer to put dvds/books on it. Fast forward 2 weeks and we're still arguing over this shelf and I've decided I'm going to take it down so it doesn't cause any more arguments. As such we are now into a deeper argument all over a God damn shelf. Put up 2 shelves, I'm guessing the books,dvds didn't look as pretty as the candles Quote
Graeme Posted June 2, 2022 Posted June 2, 2022 2 hours ago, janrichmond said: Put up 2 shelves, I'm guessing the books,dvds didn't look as pretty as the candles They're much more fun, though. 2 Quote
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