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  1. Now he's offered her 8 million. She won't accept it. She has advised he must sign a joint statement wherein he admits he has physically abused her. He refuses because he states he has never physically abused her. I've spent time in a battered women's shelter and I've worked in one. The major theme is, "I just wanna be done with that Mother F'R."  

    Not sure why she wants this but I predict more evidence of him being a crazy ass fool yet none of him physically abusing her. They are both toxic. A divorce lawyers dream. 

  2. On August 14, 2016 at 4:08 PM, Tiffani said:

    Yes, it WAS packed. I was in attendance. 

    Axl has the most incredible stage presence doesn't he? So funny when he said, "Thanks for stopping by" too! :lol: Also funny when he stopped for the broken piano key, the way he did it. He was calm. Twenty years ago he would have thrown the piano bench in the crowd and walked off stage I read in one article. I don't know about that. You certainly could see his sense of humor shining. We were on the 10th row from the stage. Was fantastic!

  3. Hang in there. Make sure you don't get pregnant at this stage in your relationship. Orsys and Soulmonster are right. But seriously, make sure you mind not getting pregnant. And do, take care of you!

    edit: I know you are the guy but you know what I mean when I say don't get pregnant.  Right. 

  4. 1 hour ago, Len B'stard said:

    MOS: CHINKIES, CHINKIES, CHINKIES!!!  I WANT A FUCKIN' KEBAB, WHY ARE ALL THE MENUS CHINKIES?!?!  

    HUSBAND *timid voice*: I'm sorry, there was a kebab house one this morning but i used it to scoop up Rovers droppings, i was taking him walkies and he done his business on the doorstep

    Mos glares daggers at him

    MOS:  My mother was right about you!

    slams random kitchen cupboard doors

    MOS: Muddafucker!!!  Muddafucker!!!!!

    throws ring in his face and stomps out of the room, tripping as she exits the door and faceplanting.

    MOS: Look what you made me do!!!!  

    :lol:

    You are so funny! :lol:

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  5. 12 minutes ago, toroymoi said:

    I see her as being abused because I'm looking at the evidence and accusations without a bias for Depp. I know exactly what you meant by that, but I disagree. We'll just ignore the part where you dropped the suit for spousal support too, because that doesn't suit the narrative you're trying to promote.

    She'd been dating Johnny since 2012... it doesn't have to be 16 for it to be an acceptable amount of time (in your mind) for abuse to develop and her to be proactive in how she approaches it. It was clear in the texts released between her and his (I think) manager, where she held hope that he could change his ways. Being in a relationship she experienced his bad side, but also the good... and it's the good that will convince people that the bad is something that can be changed. If he was violent, she probably recorded it as a precaution; just in case he didn't change and it led to the situation she's currently in.

    Yep, she was married to a woman prior. Yep, she was arrested for abuse (as Johnny has been in the past). She's not a gay woman, so you can stop the erasing of her sexuality right there. She's bi-sexual (aka, likes both women and men) and has identified as such for a long time. Way to try and play up the idea that she's a predatory lesbian though, really admirable.

    You still don't get what I'm saying about money. Why should someone payout for spending such a short time with someone? But that's a non-issue because it's a community property state. 

    I have nothing against gay ppl. She is a predator. Nice how you try to twist my words. 

    So did your tiny robot account get banned because you would continue to strike out at the person you were speaking to rather than stay on topic?

  6. 2 minutes ago, toroymoi said:

    What actions of hers have led you to believe this? Your bit about her being owed something if she gave him the best years of her life/kids, is just beyond a response tbh. She could've only suffered his abuse for one and she'd still be owed something, financially or not. There's no time-span for abuse to become abuse.

    Reducing violent behaviour and physical violence down to tantrums is disgusting. Making a video doesn't prove that she had extortion on her mind, it proves that she was being proactive if there came a time when he didn't change his behaviour or personality.

    Again, it's not as simple as "just leave". Countless psychological studies prove that, abuse is very complicated.

    Wow! We see things completely different. You think she was abused. I don't.  I think she should get money if she gave him the better part of her life without abuse. That's what I meant there. As classic mentioned there is a pre-nup so she is going to get money anyway. I think she wanted a lot more possibly. That comment had nothing to do with pay for abuse.

    And yes, there is a huge difference between physical violence and a temper tantrum.  I understand all the countless psychological studies and how complicated it is but you see she's bypassed all the difficult parts and fast. She didn't stay with an abuser for years and years. She was filming him less than a year into it and filing divorce 15 months into the marriage. And she was married to a woman prior. Took her last name too. And was arrested for assaulting her. She is a gay woman that married him for a payday. 

     

     

  7. 8 minutes ago, classicrawker said:

    My guess is she released it because Depp is a very popular actor and is getting a lot of support from his friends saying they don't believe he did what she claims. Just a guess I am thinking she released it to show she was not lying about his abusive behaviour.

    I have no issue with her doing this as she was taking a lot of shit from his friends in the press and wanted to show she was telling the truth........

    California is a 50/50 community property split State for divorce I beleive and they did not have  a prenup so she was going to get a large settlement no matter whether she released the video or not so I don't see this a ploy for more money...........:shrugs:

    http://www.etonline.com/news/189633_johnny_depp_and_amber_heard_to_divorce_with_no_prenup_who_gets_what/

     

    I had read there was no pre-nup.  This is why I don't understand why she has made everything so public. It makes no sense. 

  8. 3 minutes ago, toroymoi said:

    What you think isn't what this case is about though. You can think she's a snake or whatever, that still doesn't excuse his behaviour. Again, I have no idea what you mean by "she isn't presenting herself as a battered woman", I didn't realise there was a specified way in which someone needs to present themselves for their story to be believed. Your entire argument against her is based upon your assumptions about her character, and not fact. You bringing up Katie Holmes once again keeps showing that you think there's one way to act; THERE'S NOT. Every person is an individual and will act/react differently. It's not a difficult concept.

    There are women that will do that, sure. There are men and women who will do that. There's men that hit women, there's women that hit men and so on and so forth. You bringing that up is attempting to subvert the narrative of this story, you've already decided that Amber's a gold-digging harlot no matter what. So no amount of evidence to the contrary will ever convince you, and that's the worst mindset to have.

    Abuse and it's effects aren't straight-forward. 

    Why is this so difficult for you to understand? It is not about how someone appears to be it's about what they do. Their actions. This chick is trying to bleed him for money! And that is it! Now if they had been married for years, she had given him her best years, had children then yes, he owed her something, but they've been married just over a year.  He has tantrums and she's trying to make a video to extort money from him! She proved herself with making this video she had extortion on her mind. If he's an asshole then leave him.

     

     

     

  9. 2 minutes ago, classicrawker said:

    I find it curious people are defending Depp because he did not physically strike her...As Toroymoi pointed out there are different types of abuse and if Depp made a habit of throwing tantrums it is psychological abuse which is not acceptable.

    As far as her doing a video of the incident I don't blame her as it sounds like Depp had a habit of this type of abuse and she needed some record to prove his abuse. Based on all of Depp's contemporaries defending him it sounds like she did the smart thing.

    I don't care how big of a cunt Amber was being Depp's behaviour is unacceptible. He should have walked away instead of throwing stuff.

     

    Now you make a point I can understand. I didn't see that Toroymoi or tiny robot was making that point because she just came off as extremely rude to me rather than trying to have a discussion.  

    I agree though he should walk away. That sort of tantrum is unacceptable. I don't understand her releasing this to the public. Why is she doing this? I understand releasing it to the judge however all of this can be sealed.  

    Divorce law interests me. This just doesn't make since what she is doing. 

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    10 minutes ago, toroymoi said:

    There's no 'one way' to act if someone's been in an abusive relationship, this is a disgusting comment. I'm sorry for what you went through, but it seems you're laying anger you have onto her because she's not approaching this in a way you find personally acceptable. You can't dictate to a victim how they should act, not even if you are one yourself/have been at one point in time.

    I think she is a scammer and she is presenting herself as one. She isn't presenting as a battered woman. Each step of the way she is about money. Look at Katie Holmes. Now she was probably mentally abused. She just walked. This woman is doing everything in her power to harm him. SHE is the abuser!

    It's unfortunate you find my comment disgusting. There are some women that will intentionally try to ruin a man's life for attention and money. Remember the La Crosse players? 

    Edit:. Tiny robot is that you? ?

  11. 1 hour ago, Len B'stard said:

    On the flipside, why is that the key issue, surely if he's being the cunt then thats the primary sin here, perhaps she was filming him because otherwise no one'd believe her, I mean people still dont believe her.

    Dont get me wrong, I'm not for stitching someone up so you can rinse some money out of them but at the same time I think being abusive to your missus, if in fact he was in a manner above and beyond what the vid illustrates, is the greater sin.

    Goes to show the power of cinema, a bunch of people (not meaning you Adrift) watch Edward Sisscorhands and a few interviews where a fella comes off like a sensitive soul and it immediately places a bias in the minds of people.

    I actually really like Johnny Depp as an actor, i think hes put in some really decent shifts in front of the camera...but i dont care how good an actor you are, Laurence Olivier, Marlon Brando, whoever, you ain't suddenly infallible.

    You make a very good point Len. And why is it most do not believe her I wonder? This video makes me believe her less. Sure he's being a dick but he's really beating himself up about something, not her. She minimizes real domestic abuse.  He's slamming a few cabinets. If he beat her she wouldn't have kept that video. He would have water boarded that phone and that video would not exist. 

    I see what you mean about everyone being sympathetic to him because of the characters he plays and his looks and all yet I think more of it is she seems so transparent. Well that's my take. Now she says she didn't leak the video? Why even say that? She made the video. He would not meet her settlement agreement prior to depositions so of course she released it to intentionally make him look bad. She was using this tape trying to force him to settle and he told her to go stick it.  Which tells me he knows he has a temper but he knows he didn't hit her.  

    Ive been in a physically abusive relationship. She's not acting like a woman that has been in one and she's pissing me and a lot of other women off that have. We can tell she is a liar. 

  12. 50 minutes ago, toroymoi said:

    When someone hurts you badly, especially if it's psychological/emotional/physical abuse, it's awfully appealing to not want to see them prosper. If a man hit me and abused me in other ways, then if I had to see him be praised as this amazing person (which is only heightened because he's famous), that can continue the psychological damage. You're not instantly healed because you get away.

    So you think he should pay financially? And that will make things better. I think this video was taken before they were married. Why marry someone that gets that upset?

    Only one of them has been arrested for domestic abuse and it wasn't him. There is something wrong with her. 

  13. 17 minutes ago, PappyTron said:

    I have no idea. What video? As for who is telling the truth, my position hasn't changed from when this first broke; that those outside of the marriage have no idea what goes on when there are no cameras there and it is entirely possible that she is telling the truth and it is entirely possible that he is telling truth, and that the most likely scenario is that the truth is somewhere in between the two.

    Right, I should have posted the video but don't know how to. It's on http://www.tmz.com

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