Axl Roses Future Wife

Just now, toroymoi said:

Tell him that you both probably need some time apart to deal with what happened; he'll need more than an evening to resolve his feelings/the rejection, and it sounds like you're uncomfortable after his behaviour and seeing how impassioned he was.

It doesn't have to be months etc, but maybe a couple of weeks to just breathe and re-evaluate where you both are.

That actually sounds like a really great idea!  Thank you <3

10 minutes ago, TheDemocracyRose said:

Clearly Axl sounding a little off at the begining but that scream at 4:35 makes me forget it... 

 

I so agree with you here! Amazing!!!!!!

9 minutes ago, Powerage5 said:

Axl was fine, but yeah, it was pretty loose in general. Probably the worst I've ever seen them do it. 

Really? I haven't seen a video yet but that's disappointing 

Just now, Slash787 said:

Cutting the cord completely will be cruel, he was your friend for so many years, it was wrong of him to expect so much and just storm out like that. 

You can't be forced to love someone, but if he wants to remain friends like before, then even you should just remain friends with him. 

Ok.  I feel so weird around him now though.  But I'll give it a try and see how it goes.

3 minutes ago, Slash787 said:

Dont worry, you will find someone good who respects you and your daughter.

What can I say, some men are dogs and only think about Sex, its good you din't give them any importance to them. 

The person who will love you needs to respect you and your daughter first. 

Thank you I so agree. I'm not holding out hope on that one though.  Lol

12 hours ago, -W.A.R- said:

i bet he'll text her tomorrow telling her hes sorry for how he acted

i don't imagine the friendship will be the same again though

Just got that text dude. : "I'm so sorry for storming out on you like that.  I was just really upset and you didn't give me the answer I was hoping for.  I should not have treated you like that.  I'd rather have you in my life as my friend than not at all.  Do you think we could make it work?" 

Honestly I don't know what to say because I can't look at him the same way or be the same way I was with him all these years knowing that he'll always want more and that he feels for me something way more than I do.  I'm thinking on cutting the cord completely or is that too cruel?

The only real reason I'm still single is that I haven't found one single man who wants to be with me and my daughter.  I've been on dates and they all have one thing in common, the men just wanted to get laid.  Once they all found out I had a kid already none of them wanted a relationship.  I could have really tried with a couple of them I really liked but it just didn't work out.  Guess I'm destined for the single life forever.

1 minute ago, Slash787 said:

@Axl Roses Future Wife thats nice to know, wish you all the best. 

Thanks @Slash787 <3

She spent the night with her Nana last night too. I don't drink at all when I'm around her either.  Last night was my first time getting drunk in over a year.  She's my whole world. 

37 minutes ago, Slash787 said:

Well I don't think so if she even knows or remembers me. Its been 6 years since Ive been out of high school. She seems to live in NY now and Im no where near her lol. 

Sorry to hear about your friend, he should not have done that, after so many years he should have accepted the reality, well what can I say, sometimes guys can be idiots. 

Just wanted to add my 2 cents to your and Axl thing, not making fun and I'm not mocking you, I did read about your thing in the other thread and for people when you are alone, you can relate to other things, But sometimes obsessing about one thing/person is not good. I love GNR, I love Axl, I love Slash, I love Steven and many other artists, but like there should be a limit, yeah love has no limit, but its not good to be delusional either.

Me and @AxlsFavoriteRose also share things in that Celeb shag thread that how Ashley Greene is my wife and the next day its Kate Beckinsale and how she wants Tom Hardy or Michael Sheen lol, but we just have a nice happy funny talk about it. 

You have a nice cute daughter, you should take care of her cause the world outside is very bad, I hope you find someone good and make a good family, But yeah concentrate on your daughter more cause she needs you, we all love Axl, but well he has his own life? 

I love many other artists as well not just Axl.  And I'm not delusional I know that Axl will never know I exist and even if he did why the fuck would he pick me to be with?  Hahaha I don't look like any of his model girlfriends and I have a daughter.  What man wants to take that on?  Seriously I so love the guy but I'm not stupid.  I know it's not gonna happen but a girl can dream right?  ONe day I'll fall in love with someone else. And my daughter gets all my concentration.  It's only when I'm not with her that I'm even on the Internet. 

2 hours ago, Slash787 said:

Well Even I will share an experience or something which I want to vent out. 

I did like a girl in high school, never had the balls to talk to her, but she was so beautiful, Even now I like her, I hope one day I could meet her and maybe take a picture with her or something, even now I don't have the balls to talk to her or tell her that I like her lol. 

I would say she was and still is out of my league, maybe we would have never gotten along, she used to drink, smoke, party all the time and well I am to the total opposite of that. 

But well wherever she is (btw she is in NY right now) I hope she always stays happy.

There are many hot girls out there, but she was something different, there was another type of an attraction I had towards her. 

No woman is out of your league. But I do know what you mean. In high school there's these cliques and once you've been classed into one that's what you think you are and what you think you deserve. Maybe Facebook her one day and see if she'd like to meet up for coffee? You never know. Just be yourself. You're a really cool guy and I can see her being attracted to you as well. But what do I know I'm drunk asf so maybe don't take me seriously ?

1 hour ago, Snake-Pit said:

Are you drunk @Slash787? I can't see that! It's like you're seeing things (again), from usernames 'made up in your head' to this.  

... No offense @Axl Roses Future Wife 

No worries ?

2 hours ago, Len Cnut said:

Well he sounds like an absolute cunt.  For someone crazily madly in love with you he didnt really give much thought to your feelings there, did he?

Yeah none whatsoever 

2 hours ago, Slash787 said:

I can honestly see @Snake-Pit and @Axl Roses Future Wife getting together.

You're too funny! ???

TBH: you all are so much nicer and cooler on this forum than on the Guns n Roses one. ❤️ You all are awesome! Also don't mind me I'm drunk. ?

1 minute ago, ZoSoRose said:

This is on him. I could write a novel right now with a similar experience, but I wont. I'll give you the short version

I had a "best friend" girl way back in the day. I was fucking crazy about her. Like, jump into a fan crazy or kill Axl on command crazy about her. Anyways, we were just really close friends and I never said anything. Well, the situation was different than yours... she came onto me and was my first kiss. That made me more crazy, but she decided she wasn't digging it and eventually started dating someone else. She was dishonest with me along the way which made things way worse, but point is, our friendship dissolved. Sucked. Well, years later we reconnected and became closer than ever. We've been dating over a year now, actually. I know that isn't what you want in your case, but since I had so much time to move on we were able to reconnect. Or something? 

I don't know, I'm high as fuck nevermind

Bahahahaha! Well I'm drunk asf so there you go! And thanks for that post btw. I'm hoping one day we can be friends again but I know it won't be the same

Getting drunk. FYI I am not to be held responsible for anything I post tonight!!!! ????

It's all the tequila's fault!

2 minutes ago, AxlsFavoriteRose said:

not to stand up for the guy but he was probably horribly embarrassed and covered up his hurt by acting like a jerk. this is why most guys who are in the friend zone stay there because the fear of rejection is so great. a lot of women think men don't have feelings like that, but i know most people ( men and women alike ) are terrified of rejection. i know i am!

Oh I don't blame him at all for storming off. I'm not mad at him. I'm mad at myself. ?

1 minute ago, -W.A.R- said:

i bet he'll text her tomorrow telling her hes sorry for how he acted

i don't imagine the friendship will be the same again though

No I don't see things ever going back to the way they used to be

Thanks guys. I do appreciate your support. I feel like a complete shit. And a dumbass. How did I not see this? 

Well that was the worst experience of my life. Friendship is over.  He stormed out of the restaurant and never wants to see or speak to me again. So yeah, I'm now balling my eyes out and drinking tequila. 

Fuck my life

I destroy everything. I should come with a fucking warning label. 

16 minutes ago, Graeme said:

Would you point me to the peer-reviewed biological evidence for straight men being incapable of platonic friendships with (objectively) attractive women?

In my experience, gender has very little to do with whether or not it's possible to hold down a friendship with someone of the opposite sex, it's much more to do with individual personality traits. I know girls, pretty girls too, who've been 'friendzoned' by straight single guys. This idea that all men seek to mindlessly fuck everything that moves, whereas women are passive entities who almost need to be tricked into any form of sexual activity seems to me to be based on a cultural generalisation that doesn't withstand much scrutiny when you start to talk to real people.

If I could like this I would 

And thanks for making fun of me. Just what I needed

1 minute ago, spunko12345 said:

Does he know all this about you and Axl?

Just show him what you just wrote and he'll run a fucking mile trust me problem solved.

Yes he knows everything. He claims that I love him and I just don't know it yet and my love for Axl is just a way to distract myself from it because I'm too scared to have a "real" relationship. He couldn't be further from the truth. I've only fallen in love once before Axl and I know exactly what that feels like and it's nothing like what I feel for my best friend. 

29 minutes ago, Ace Spade said:

 Unless he's a Homosexual, there's no such thing as a Man that only wants to be "friends" with an attractive Woman. We 're just not wired that way, it's against our biology.

"Friend zone" is a Psychological and spiritual killer to a Man if it goes on for too long. If it's been six years and he's finally telling you now, it's probably because he's at his breaking point.

If you value his well being you need to immediately change the dynamics of the relationship. He won't be able to change the way he feels abut you, even if he wants to. It will only continue to cause him and now you, more pain.

In fact, the only chance he has with you is if he completely disappears out of your life as your "friend" and tells you that you either be his lover, or be gone for good.

Some time apart may help to clarify your own feelings for him as well. Are you really sure you don't fell anything for him? Or do you only have eyes for Axl?

I'm definitely sure I don't have feelings for him. And as of now yes I only have eyes for Axl. He's the only man who has ever made me weak in the knees and given me those butterflies in my tummy. So I can't see that ever changing. My only hope is to fall in love with someone else one day as Axl will never know I exist. And that would have been ok cause I would have had my best friend by my side but now it's looking like I lost him too. ?

37 minutes ago, -W.A.R- said:

i personally wouldn't have let get that far. meeting him for dinner is kinda leading him on, but again i know its a awkward position for you.

pay your half of the bill atleast!!!

don't skate out on him like "wow that steak was great....oh yeah, im not interested in you. k thx bye."

We have dinner together at least 3 times a week every week. Like I said he's my best friend. Well he was ? And yes I've always paid for my own half of the bill. I've never let a man pay for anything for me. 

I love this interview!