After nearly a week of haggling I was able to get my $ back from the hotel (never never NEVER use trip.com). Because it is so rare to be able to do anything together with our older children and we had a sitter for our younger ones we pivoted and traveled to Indy instead to see the last date of the Smashing Pumpkins tour. Great show and great memories. Still bummed about the postponement and not sure it will end up working out for us but at least we were able to make the best of it. I know that wasn’t an option for everyone.