Thin White Duke Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Sounds to me like your problem isn't alcohol, it is socialising. I thought that was taken for granted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arnold layne Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 This thread has been absolutely dreadful and pathetic since the first post yet I still come back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lithium Posted April 11, 2014 Author Share Posted April 11, 2014 This thread has been absolutely dreadful and pathetic since the first post yet I still come back.Don't talk shit bout ma thread fagot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thin White Duke Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Tell me, if you had 5 dates with a girl and you had to do a different thing everytime, what would you do? Where would you take her? Edit - My most serious tip until now: PM Pappy and talk to him if you really want to improve and you're not just doing this because you enjoy the attention. Coffee on the initial meetingDinnerMoviesSome kind of activity like bowling / mini-golf / etc.ConcertOk. And if she told you to do soemthing you don't like, such as going to dance to a club? Would you make the effort? Imagine it's already the 5 date and you 2 are doing really well so far. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Facekicker Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Tell me, if you had 5 dates with a girl and you had to do a different thing everytime, what would you do? Where would you take her? Edit - My most serious tip until now: PM Pappy and talk to him if you really want to improve and you're not just doing this because you enjoy the attention. Coffee on the initial meetingDinner MoviesSome kind of activity like bowling / mini-golf / etc.ConcertForget dinner on the second date. Are you mental? Movies are also out. You can't talk.Sounds to me like your problem isn't alcohol, it is socialising. I thought that was taken for granted. I'm not as up to speed on McCoy as some of the posters here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Real McCoy Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Tell me, if you had 5 dates with a girl and you had to do a different thing everytime, what would you do? Where would you take her? Edit - My most serious tip until now: PM Pappy and talk to him if you really want to improve and you're not just doing this because you enjoy the attention. Coffee on the initial meetingDinnerMoviesSome kind of activity like bowling / mini-golf / etc.Concert Ok. And if she told you to do soemthing you don't like, such as going to dance to a club? Would you make the effort? Imagine it's already the 5 date and you 2 are doing really well so far. That's a concession that I'd be willing to make at that point. It would help that I'd be with someone when I went. It wouldn't be my first choice, and I'd still be uncomfortable to some extent.Obviously, finding someone that doesn't like that stuff either would be the choice if at all possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tater Totts Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Ever considered a mail order bride/ green card marriage? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thin White Duke Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 (edited) That's a concession that I'd be willing to make at that point. It would help that I'd be with someone when I went. It wouldn't be my first choice, and I'd still be uncomfortable to some extent.Obviously, finding someone that doesn't like that stuff either would be the choice if at all possible.The first part of this is fine the second is wrong.You're willing to make consessions which is good and unavoidable if you want a relationship to last but... the second sentence is one of your big problems. Your expectations are surreal, you're looking for a perfect woman who likes and enjoy exactly the same things you like. That person doesn't exist. You can't be in your comfort zone all the time to succeed in this world. Edited April 11, 2014 by Thin White Duke Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PappyTron Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Real McCoy Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Ever considered a mail order bride/ green card marriage?Would those fall under the category of "keeping my options open?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tater Totts Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 That's a concession that I'd be willing to make at that point. It would help that I'd be with someone when I went. It wouldn't be my first choice, and I'd still be uncomfortable to some extent.Obviously, finding someone that doesn't like that stuff either would be the choice if at all possible.The first part of this is fine the second is wrong.You're willing to make consessions which is good and unavoidable if you want a relationship to last but... the second sentence is one of your big problems. Your expectations are surreal, you're looking for a perfect woman who likes and enjoy exactly the same things you like. That person doesn't exist. You can't be in your comfort zone all the time to succeed in this world. Could not agree more, it is impossible to find someone who 100% likes the same things as you do, has the same personality and is pretty much your mirror. Half the fun of relationships is having someone who has different interests and hobbies that you can explore as a way of getting closer to them. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SR_GR Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Tell me, if you had 5 dates with a girl and you had to do a different thing everytime, what would you do? Where would you take her? Edit - My most serious tip until now: PM Pappy and talk to him if you really want to improve and you're not just doing this because you enjoy the attention. Coffee on the initial meetingDinnerMoviesSome kind of activity like bowling / mini-golf / etc.ConcertIf you get along with the other person on the first "date" = first time you spendsome time together, the next time you can do about anything: sit in a park,do some shopping at the mall, art gallery... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magisme Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Go get highlights together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Real McCoy Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Go get highlights together.....really? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lio Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Go get highlights together.....really? I'm so looking forward to a selfie of you and your date at the hairdresser's. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arnold layne Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 hooray for tolerance!. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magisme Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Go get highlights together.....really? I wish I didn't kinda like you, because you really get on my fuckin nerves sometimes. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arnold layne Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Dude's hopeless! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Real McCoy Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 hooray for tolerance!.Haters gonna hate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tater Totts Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 McCoy fuck off and actually do something for a change rather than just sitting in here wallowing the whole time.We give you the advice you so yearn for so take your head out of your ass and actually put it into use for once. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magisme Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Dude's hopeless!That's why I want to dislike him. You just may be right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arnold layne Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 I think we should invest more time in people who are going places, who actually aspire to do something!I don't know. Maybe Dazey? He's going to be an old man and all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magisme Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Dazey is as hopeless as McCoy, in his own way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tater Totts Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 Dazey is as hopeless as McCoy, in his own way. Married, overweight and has a sprog on the way.Seems like he is right on track. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arnold layne Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 We could give him parenting lessons. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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