Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 3 minutes ago, Slash787 said: Dont worry, you will find someone good who respects you and your daughter. What can I say, some men are dogs and only think about Sex, its good you din't give them any importance to them. The person who will love you needs to respect you and your daughter first. Thank you I so agree. I'm not holding out hope on that one though. Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Słash Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 11 minutes ago, Axl Roses Future Wife said: Just got that text dude. : "I'm so sorry for storming out on you like that. I was just really upset and you didn't give me the answer I was hoping for. I should not have treated you like that. I'd rather have you in my life as my friend than not at all. Do you think we could make it work?" Honestly I don't know what to say because I can't look at him the same way or be the same way I was with him all these years knowing that he'll always want more and that he feels for me something way more than I do. I'm thinking on cutting the cord completely or is that too cruel? Cutting the cord completely will be cruel, he was your friend for so many years, it was wrong of him to expect so much and just storm out like that. You can't be forced to love someone, but if he wants to remain friends like before, then even you should just remain friends with him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 Just now, Slash787 said: Cutting the cord completely will be cruel, he was your friend for so many years, it was wrong of him to expect so much and just storm out like that. You can't be forced to love someone, but if he wants to remain friends like before, then even you should just remain friends with him. Ok. I feel so weird around him now though. But I'll give it a try and see how it goes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toroymoi Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 2 hours ago, Axl Roses Future Wife said: Just got that text dude. : "I'm so sorry for storming out on you like that. I was just really upset and you didn't give me the answer I was hoping for. I should not have treated you like that. I'd rather have you in my life as my friend than not at all. Do you think we could make it work?" Honestly I don't know what to say because I can't look at him the same way or be the same way I was with him all these years knowing that he'll always want more and that he feels for me something way more than I do. I'm thinking on cutting the cord completely or is that too cruel? Tell him that you both probably need some time apart to deal with what happened; he'll need more than an evening to resolve his feelings/the rejection, and it sounds like you're uncomfortable after his behaviour and seeing how impassioned he was. It doesn't have to be months etc, but maybe a couple of weeks to just breathe and re-evaluate where you both are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 Just now, toroymoi said: Tell him that you both probably need some time apart to deal with what happened; he'll need more than an evening to resolve his feelings/the rejection, and it sounds like you're uncomfortable after his behaviour and seeing how impassioned he was. It doesn't have to be months etc, but maybe a couple of weeks to just breathe and re-evaluate where you both are. That actually sounds like a really great idea! Thank you <3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toroymoi Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 Just now, Axl Roses Future Wife said: That actually sounds like a really great idea! Thank you <3 Np! Hope it all works out for the best <3 I've been in this situation a few times before and taking some time to clear your head really helps Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 1 minute ago, toroymoi said: Np! Hope it all works out for the best <3 I've been in this situation a few times before and taking some time to clear your head really helps You're so sweet! I hope so too. And sorry that this happened to you a few times. It's not an easy situation to be in. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-W.A.R- Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 (edited) ive always been quick on the draw with "shes not interested", maybe too quick...i really dug this chick that i only knew somewhat mutually. when i made a facebook i tried to add her but she never accepted, so i was like oh well and deleted my facebook shortly after because i didn't like it that much. well i got a update on her awhile ago and shes got pregnant by a guy with bingo wings LMAO Edited September 15, 2016 by -W.A.R- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toroymoi Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 12 minutes ago, Axl Roses Future Wife said: You're so sweet! I hope so too. And sorry that this happened to you a few times. It's not an easy situation to be in. Aw thanks, you too! and it's really not, but I was able to remain friends with one of the guys so at least something positive came from that. The others don't bear thinking about lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Słash Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 20 minutes ago, -W.A.R- said: ive always been quick on the draw with "shes not interested", maybe too quick...i really dug this chick that only knew somewhat mutually. when i made a facebook i tried to add her but she never accepted and was like oh well and deleted my facebook shortly after because i didn't like it that much. well i got a update on her awhile ago and shes got pregnant by a guy with bingo wings LMAO Love hurts, love scars, love wounds Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 10 minutes ago, Slash787 said: Love hurts, love scars, love wounds It sure does. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AxlsFavoriteRose Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 (edited) 13 minutes ago, Slash787 said: Love hurts, love scars, love wounds and marks, any heart Edited September 15, 2016 by AxlsFavoriteRose Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-W.A.R- Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 (edited) 1 hour ago, Slash787 said: Love hurts, love scars, love wounds lol nah i didn't really know her like that. i just think i sold myself short in that case. shes really pretty but shes kinda weird honestly Edited September 15, 2016 by -W.A.R- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 I am so fucking depressed right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DieselDaisy Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 Do you like blokes in skirts? Graeme will go out with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 14 minutes ago, DieselDaisy said: Do you like blokes in skirts? Graeme will go out with you. No offence to Graeme but I'm not dating any guys on here. They probably all think I'm a basket case anyway so..... That's not so attractive. Lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Graeme Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 1 hour ago, DieselDaisy said: Do you like blokes in skirts? Graeme will go out with you. Best. Wingman. Ever. Cheers, pal. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Graeme Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 6 hours ago, Axl Roses Future Wife said: Ok. I feel so weird around him now though. But I'll give it a try and see how it goes. I did say you should probably give it some breathing space, because you'll both need time to adjust in different ways. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AxlsFavoriteRose Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 3 minutes ago, Graeme said: Best. Wingman. Ever. Cheers, pal. well Axl wore a kilt for a time so she might like that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axl Roses Future Wife Posted September 15, 2016 Author Share Posted September 15, 2016 24 minutes ago, Graeme said: I did say you should probably give it some breathing space, because you'll both need time to adjust in different ways. Yes thanks @Graeme I think that I will because I need to for myself and plus I think it would be good for him too. 25 minutes ago, AxlsFavoriteRose said: well Axl wore a kilt for a time so she might like that You're absolutely right. Men in kilts do all kinds of weird things to me ??????. Remember Axl's leather skirt? Omg! I died. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AxlsFavoriteRose Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 10 minutes ago, Axl Roses Future Wife said: You're absolutely right. Men in kilts do all kinds of weird things to me ??????. Remember Axl's leather skirt? Omg! I died. lol yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nickzark Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 it is sometimes hard to say that you want a woman. I remember in high school i liked a girl and never tolld her abou my feeling.The rejection would be very bad for me.I was afraid.But maybe that was for good.Everything happens for a reason.Let some time pass and try again to be only friends.Dont erase him from your life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ace Spade Posted September 16, 2016 Share Posted September 16, 2016 On 9/15/2016 at 10:35 PM, Graeme said: Would you point me to the peer-reviewed biological evidence for straight men being incapable of platonic friendships with (objectively) attractive women? In my experience, gender has very little to do with whether or not it's possible to hold down a friendship with someone of the opposite sex, it's much more to do with individual personality traits. I know girls, pretty girls too, who've been 'friendzoned' by straight single guys. This idea that all men seek to mindlessly fuck everything that moves, whereas women are passive entities who almost need to be tricked into any form of sexual activity seems to me to be based on a cultural generalisation that doesn't withstand much scrutiny when you start to talk to real people. So what's your friend zone girls name? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Graeme Posted September 16, 2016 Share Posted September 16, 2016 3 hours ago, Ace Spade said: So what's your friend zone girls name? Ad hominem tactics are the resort of someone who doesn't have anything meaningful to contribute to the debate... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Len Cnut Posted September 16, 2016 Share Posted September 16, 2016 17 minutes ago, Graeme said: Ad hominem tactics are the resort of someone who doesn't have anything meaningful to contribute to the debate... Well thats effectively invalidating 90% of my posting history 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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