Lithium Posted February 17, 2015 Author Share Posted February 17, 2015 You're wrong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Is0tope Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 Lithium.. were you into fitness chicks as much before you started lifting or did it come with that? I've kinda noticed guys who lift seem to be more into fitness chicks.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lio Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 I'm really looking forward to my gym date tomorrow - she actually seems like a cool girl. Plus, she can bench more than most guys.I must seem like an idiot now after the discussion about Tinder only being for sex. Best of luck, Lith 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Is0tope Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 Fitness is fine. But...she can bench more than most guys...means I'm out. I don't want people looking at my girl and thinking, "she looks strong." Would it be more a matter of the contrast between the two of you than the contrast between her and other women? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axls Rocket Queen Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 No way a chick with a feminine build can bench more than most guys.Pretty sure my mate (and her enormous boyfriend) disproves that 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magisme Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 (edited) Fitness is fine. But...she can bench more than most guys...means I'm out. I don't want people looking at my girl and thinking, "she looks strong." Would it be more a matter of the contrast between the two of you than the contrast between her and other women?Serious question? It's that I'd feel like I was hooking up with a dude.@ARQ:Strong legs and strong chest//arms are very different things, and they show in very different ways on a woman's body. I'd say no way the girl in that pic benches more than most guys.What's the number we're talking about anyway? What are we saying most guys can bench? Edited February 17, 2015 by magisme Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Len Cnut Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 No way a chick with a feminine build can bench more than most guys.Pretty sure my mate (and her enormous boyfriend) disproves that Not really, when you bench the bar doesn't hang off of you and hold on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lithium Posted February 17, 2015 Author Share Posted February 17, 2015 Lithium.. were you into fitness chicks as much before you started lifting or did it come with that? I've kinda noticed guys who lift seem to be more into fitness chicks..No, I used to dislike that defined fitness look on girls, but now I really like girls who lift. However, there's certainly a limit to how muscular they can be.What's the number we're talking about anyway? What are we saying most guys can bench?She benches like 140, which is more than what I see most guys at the gym start out with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axls Rocket Queen Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 Jeez guys, I was illustrating that strong girls aren't all she-hulks I don't exactly have a picture to hand of her doing a bench press, but trust me the girl lifts heavy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magisme Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 Yeah, I don't think I want my girl benching any more than a bill. She gets to that and it's time for her to get out of the gym and go get her nails did or something girly of the sort. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lithium Posted February 17, 2015 Author Share Posted February 17, 2015 The rule of thumb is that she's allowed to bench no more than half as much as you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Is0tope Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 Would it be more a matter of the contrast between the two of you than the contrast between her and other women?Serious question? It's that I'd feel like I was hooking up with a dude.It was, more or less , for this reason though;Lithium.. were you into fitness chicks as much before you started lifting or did it come with that? I've kinda noticed guys who lift seem to be more into fitness chicks..No, I used to dislike that defined fitness look on girls, but now I really like girls who lift. However, there's certainly a limit to how muscular they can be.I've noticed that with many guys who started lifting.. I guess what we are attracted to change as we transform ourselves. It's interesting really. The same way as girls tend to get into more feminine guys when they're on the pill according to some studies!The rule of thumb is that she's allowed to bench no more than half as much as you.You bench more than 140 fucking kilos?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Len Cnut Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 Lith' eats more than 140 kilos. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axls Rocket Queen Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 I need to start lifting again, got totally out of the habit since I started working and changed gym.On-topic, half day tomorrow then spending the rest of the week in Glasgow with the boyfriend And next time I go visit he will be permanently returning with me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lithium Posted February 17, 2015 Author Share Posted February 17, 2015 The rule of thumb is that she's allowed to bench no more than half as much as you.You bench more than 140 fucking kilos?? I meant 140 pounds, which is roughly 60kg. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Is0tope Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 120, still impressive man! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lithium Posted February 17, 2015 Author Share Posted February 17, 2015 I've noticed that with many guys who started lifting.. I guess what we are attracted to change as we transform ourselves. It's interesting really. The same way as girls tend to get into more feminine guys when they're on the pill according to some studies!I really admire everyone with the dedication and work ethic that it takes to build a good-looking body.120, still impressive man!More like 140, actually, so she still has some leeway 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Is0tope Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 I've noticed that with many guys who started lifting.. I guess what we are attracted to change as we transform ourselves. It's interesting really. The same way as girls tend to get into more feminine guys when they're on the pill according to some studies!I really admire everyone with the dedication and work ethic that it takes to build a good-looking body.That's the psychological part of it which is pretty simple, we tend appreciate things we like about others. But the fact that you find them more physically attractive now, probably without conscious thought (?). I think there's something more to that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lithium Posted February 17, 2015 Author Share Posted February 17, 2015 Maybe I'm simply attracted to the physical manifestation of a personality trait. All I know is that I like dat squat booty. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Is0tope Posted February 17, 2015 Share Posted February 17, 2015 (edited) Maybe I'm simply attracted to the physical manifestation of a personality trait. All I know is that I like dat squat booty.Possible and logical too, although a bit complex to become an "automatic" aspect of physical attraction.. the way it changed for you. If you look at pics of girls with different builds like 1 second each, choose which types you like and it's completely different than it was before you started lifting, where you'd start to choose more towards the direction of well built types it's almost as if something's physically changed in your brain. It could even make sense in a way thinking about it in the frames of evolutionary biology.. or well maybe in epigenetics . Edited February 17, 2015 by Is0tope Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Amir Posted February 18, 2015 Share Posted February 18, 2015 All I know is that I like dat squat booty. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DieselDaisy Posted February 18, 2015 Share Posted February 18, 2015 I do not even know what 'benching' is. Sounds gay. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Drama Posted February 18, 2015 Share Posted February 18, 2015 Gayest post ever. I can't believe you're responsible for it Dies.Admittedly, benching, the word, sounds like a homosexual activity one would carry out with using a well encrusted gloryhole or gay men's sauna. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Graeme Posted February 18, 2015 Share Posted February 18, 2015 Dies' feminine side must be one of the most repressed in the world. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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