The Real McCoy Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 Did you at least find out why she didn't want to see you again? I mean, so we all don't have to go through this again and again and again.She occasionally texts me here and there...like one out of the clear blue sky and that's it, or I'll get a random Snapchat for no good reason.Oh but that's nice. She thinks of you as a friend. But you didn't really answer my question, did you?What do you want me to say, dude? I'm not going to beg her for an explanation. I'll just take the hint that she's not interested for whatever reason and try to figure out where to go from here. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoulMonster Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 Did you at least find out why she didn't want to see you again? I mean, so we all don't have to go through this again and again and again.She occasionally texts me here and there...like one out of the clear blue sky and that's it, or I'll get a random Snapchat for no good reason.Oh but that's nice. She thinks of you as a friend. But you didn't really answer my question, did you?What do you want me to say, dude? I'm not going to beg her for an explanation. I'll just take the hint that she's not interested for whatever reason and try to figure out where to go from here.In circles, that's where you are going. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
estrangedtwat Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 I think it's cause he's short. These girls are willing to see him cause they don't know how short he is based on his profile. He shows up in person and they immediately feel like he's lied to them. So they're polite and stuff but have already decided from the first minute he's not getting a second date.Either that or it's his miserable personality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Real McCoy Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 I think it's cause he's short. These girls are willing to see him cause they don't know how short he is based on his profile. He shows up in person and they immediately feel like he's lied to them. So they're polite and stuff but have already decided from the first minute he's not getting a second date.Either that or it's his miserable personality.I'm honest about my height (5'6") on my dating profiles. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redhead74 Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 Did you at least find out why she didn't want to see you again? I mean, so we all don't have to go through this again and again and again. She occasionally texts me here and there...like one out of the clear blue sky and that's it, or I'll get a random Snapchat for no good reason.I really hope you haven't replied. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lithium Posted June 7, 2014 Author Share Posted June 7, 2014 I think it's cause he's short. These girls are willing to see him cause they don't know how short he is based on his profile. He shows up in person and they immediately feel like he's lied to them. So they're polite and stuff but have already decided from the first minute he's not getting a second date.Either that or it's his miserable personality.I'm honest about my height (5'6") on my dating profiles.Are the girls usually taller than you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magisme Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 Did you at least find out why she didn't want to see you again? I mean, so we all don't have to go through this again and again and again. She occasionally texts me here and there...like one out of the clear blue sky and that's it, or I'll get a random Snapchat for no good reason.I really hope you haven't replied.I'm sure he replied. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redhead74 Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 Did you at least find out why she didn't want to see you again? I mean, so we all don't have to go through this again and again and again. She occasionally texts me here and there...like one out of the clear blue sky and that's it, or I'll get a random Snapchat for no good reason.I really hope you haven't replied.I'm sure he replied. Since he didn't proudly announce that he hadn't replied (knowing how popular that would be here despite the fact that its contrary to his instinct), I reckon your right, mags. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Len B'stard Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 Mags is always right, he's for the children, he teach the children! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thin White Duke Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 Mags is always right, he's for the children, he teach the children!Yeah, but remember that children are dumb nowadays. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Real McCoy Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 I think it's cause he's short. These girls are willing to see him cause they don't know how short he is based on his profile. He shows up in person and they immediately feel like he's lied to them. So they're polite and stuff but have already decided from the first minute he's not getting a second date.Either that or it's his miserable personality. I'm honest about my height (5'6") on my dating profiles. Are the girls usually taller than you?I try to find girls that are 5'5 or shorter. I'm 5'5 at the absolute shortest, but I'm slightly taller than girls that are 5'5, so I must be closer to 5'6. Nothing spectacular, but still.And David Nail is freaking tall. As are Toby Keith and Blake Shelton. Most country singers are really, really tall. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoulMonster Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 Perhaps you shouldn't dress as a country singer then, it must be confusing to those you meet. On topic: Nothing wrong with replying to the girl, she has already signalled she is not interested in you in any romantic way, you might as well just accept being friends with her. Refusing to text her is just immature. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magisme Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 Mags is always right, he's for the children, he teach the children!Yeah, but remember that children are dumb nowadays. On the last day of school one of my students told my I remind her of Ted Mosby. I didn't inquire further. Nothing good was going to come of that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Real McCoy Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 Perhaps you shouldn't dress as a country singer then, it must be confusing to those you meet.On topic: Nothing wrong with replying to the girl, she has already signalled she is not interested in you in any romantic way, you might as well just accept being friends with her. Refusing to text her is just immature.There's three that I'm taller than: Kenny Chesney, Justin Moore, and Hunter Hayes. That's not counting female singers, of course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tater Totts Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 Perhaps you shouldn't dress as a country singer then, it must be confusing to those you meet.On topic: Nothing wrong with replying to the girl, she has already signalled she is not interested in you in any romantic way, you might as well just accept being friends with her. Refusing to text her is just immature.There's three that I'm taller than: Kenny Chesney, Justin Moore, and Hunter Hayes. That's not counting female singers, of course.That is nothing to be proud of really... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris1989 Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 So what do we think happened between date night and the cancellation? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magisme Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 So what do we think happened between date night and the cancellation?Hundreds of texts and snapchats.Case closed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Glow Inc. Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 I just don't get it.We've had the same conversations about the exact same situations happening again, again, and again for the last two years.May I ask, and no offense intended, what have you done to try and fix this other than trying to set appointments with random women hoping one will magically have a different attitude ? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Real McCoy Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 I just don't get it.We've had the same conversations about the exact same situations happening again, again, and again for the last two years.May I ask, and no offense intended, what have you done to try and fix this other than trying to set appointments with random women hoping one will magically have a different attitude ?I've been waiting a bit to text them back - not exactly falling over myself to get right back to them, hardly talking about myself when we go out (not that I did that much to begin with), when I do talk about myself (if she brings it up), it's about something that I'm confident about, which is my job, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NachoLZ Posted June 8, 2014 Share Posted June 8, 2014 Then you didnt attract her like a man, maybe you were too nice and she didnt saw a man she saw a friend to talk about nice things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Glow Inc. Posted June 8, 2014 Share Posted June 8, 2014 I just don't get it.We've had the same conversations about the exact same situations happening again, again, and again for the last two years.May I ask, and no offense intended, what have you done to try and fix this other than trying to set appointments with random women hoping one will magically have a different attitude ?I've been waiting a bit to text them back - not exactly falling over myself to get right back to them, hardly talking about myself when we go out (not that I did that much to begin with), when I do talk about myself (if she brings it up), it's about something that I'm confident about, which is my job, etc.You should read about what is called "inner game" ( basically how to control your emotions ) because a lot of what you are doing wrong probably shows up in your subcommunication ( your posture, the way you talk, your body language ) and it is impossible to "appear" confident if your emotions are telling you otherwise.You must find a way to genuinely feel like YOU are the prize and that getting the girl is just a bonus otherwise it won't work, even if you have all the theory right.That's the reason why it's pretty easy getting a girl whom you don't really care about wheras it's almost impossible to get what you consider a "perfect 10" : you may say the right words but the way you say them and the way you show up is not congruent with them and they can sense it. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arnold layne Posted June 8, 2014 Share Posted June 8, 2014 Perhaps you shouldn't dress as a country singer then, it must be confusing to those you meet.On topic: Nothing wrong with replying to the girl, she has already signalled she is not interested in you in any romantic way, you might as well just accept being friends with her. Refusing to text her is just immature. There's three that I'm taller than: Kenny Chesney, Justin Moore, and Hunter Hayes. That's not counting female singers, of course.Is this guy fucking serious? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DR DOOM Posted June 8, 2014 Share Posted June 8, 2014 When I go out, I always take my two wingmen with me.(chloroform and handkerchief) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lithium Posted June 8, 2014 Author Share Posted June 8, 2014 Perhaps you shouldn't dress as a country singer then, it must be confusing to those you meet.On topic: Nothing wrong with replying to the girl, she has already signalled she is not interested in you in any romantic way, you might as well just accept being friends with her. Refusing to text her is just immature. There's three that I'm taller than: Kenny Chesney, Justin Moore, and Hunter Hayes. That's not counting female singers, of course.Midget country singers don't count. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patience 4 Axl Posted June 8, 2014 Share Posted June 8, 2014 Oh well. I wouldn't be too upset about this one McCoy, I thought she came off as a flake, and had reservations about her from the beginning. So, anyway............ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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