streak Posted November 16, 2015 Share Posted November 16, 2015 Shit like this never works. One party usually gets too attached, and it fucks up from there. Plus if this group friends have all fucked each other, and two decide to get together, long term the relationship would not last.And what estranged twat says! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Len Cnut Posted November 16, 2015 Share Posted November 16, 2015 Question, serious one here that I'd like peoples opinions on, say you meet a bird, get on like a house on fire etc She's alright with you and everything but a condition of being together is you've gotta knock the boozin' on the head...like completely, forever. What would you do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Apollo Posted November 16, 2015 Share Posted November 16, 2015 Question, serious one here that I'd like peoples opinions on, say you meet a bird, get on like a house on fire etc She's alright with you and everything but a condition of being together is you've gotta knock the boozin' on the head...like completely, forever. What would you do?Ignore the people who say "if she doesn't except you for who you are then she isn't worth it" or "she is already trying to change you, do you want a lifetime of that."All of us have core values. And all of us have a group of core values that we would accept or not accept in a partner. Would you date a crack addict? Convicted child molester? Flat out racist?One of this girls core group is no drinking. You have to admire that she is confident enough in herself to keep a standard that she doesn't just drop or making exceptions for because she meets a hot guy. The answer to your question is very simple. What is more important to you? A relationship with this girl - or - alcohol. Choose the one that you think will make you happier in life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gracii Guns Posted November 16, 2015 Share Posted November 16, 2015 Question, serious one here that I'd like peoples opinions on, say you meet a bird, get on like a house on fire etc She's alright with you and everything but a condition of being together is you've gotta knock the boozin' on the head...like completely, forever. What would you do?Lenny, she isn't the woman for you. We both know that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Len Cnut Posted November 16, 2015 Share Posted November 16, 2015 Question, serious one here that I'd like peoples opinions on, say you meet a bird, get on like a house on fire etc She's alright with you and everything but a condition of being together is you've gotta knock the boozin' on the head...like completely, forever. What would you do?Ignore the people who say "if she doesn't except you for who you are then she isn't worth it" or "she is already trying to change you, do you want a lifetime of that."All of us have core values. And all of us have a group of core values that we would accept or not accept in a partner. Would you date a crack addict? Convicted child molester? Flat out racist?One of this girls core group is no drinking. You have to admire that she is confident enough in herself to keep a standard that she doesn't just drop or making exceptions for because she meets a hot guy.The answer to your question is very simple.What is more important to you? A relationship with this girl - or - alcohol. Choose the one that you think will make you happier in life.I see what you mean and everything, on paper but like...can i speak freely here, using like...just common language? Cuz i don't wanna offend you if you're some teetotaler or something so don't take this the wrong way but even if you are you're still a lad right so you get what i mean on some level, i don't wanna live like a fuckin' norman for the rest of my life. Every time you're out with the lads 'yeah, i'll have a lemonade shandy'...every party, every Christmas do, every fuckin' football game and in the pub before and after, sitting there with a lemonade or something, a shandy, whilst everyone else is having a laugh, I'm not Ned fuckin' Flanders, it's not like i'm saying i wanna bang out 2 grams of coke and smoke a quarter ounce everyday, it's just having a drink like normal people, I'm not a fuckin' alcoholic or anything it's just....what people do.It's alright if it's not your thing but i ain't forcing no one to do nothing, i don't put conditions on no one that they gotta live a certain way or do certain things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lio Posted November 16, 2015 Share Posted November 16, 2015 Question, serious one here that I'd like peoples opinions on, say you meet a bird, get on like a house on fire etc She's alright with you and everything but a condition of being together is you've gotta knock the boozin' on the head...like completely, forever. What would you do?No, I would never give up drinking I mean, I understand if you're an alcoholic, someone who can't possibly drink one or two glasses, but always has to go all out and has a drinking problem. I understand your girlfriend would demand you'd stop drinking altogether. But other than that? If you're just a social drinker who likes a glass now and then and might on occasion be drunk (and not drive!!)? No.Why would she demand you stopped drinking altogether, if I may ask?I know some teetotallers myself, mostly people who've had to live with alcoholists and choose to abstain for that reason. But they don't ask their partners to quit drinking altogether, even if they witnessed first hand how alcohol can ruin your life, so even if I know teetotallers, I've never come across anyone who'd forbid his/her partner to drink alcohol. I could see they wouldn't want their partner to drink themselves under the table each weekend, but total abstinence? No. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DieselDaisy Posted November 16, 2015 Share Posted November 16, 2015 Question, serious one here that I'd like peoples opinions on, say you meet a bird, get on like a house on fire etc She's alright with you and everything but a condition of being together is you've gotta knock the boozin' on the head...like completely, forever. What would you do?She can fuck off. Beastly woman, robbing a guy of his tipple. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Apollo Posted November 16, 2015 Share Posted November 16, 2015 Question, serious one here that I'd like peoples opinions on, say you meet a bird, get on like a house on fire etc She's alright with you and everything but a condition of being together is you've gotta knock the boozin' on the head...like completely, forever. What would you do?Ignore the people who say "if she doesn't except you for who you are then she isn't worth it" or "she is already trying to change you, do you want a lifetime of that."All of us have core values. And all of us have a group of core values that we would accept or not accept in a partner. Would you date a crack addict? Convicted child molester? Flat out racist?One of this girls core group is no drinking. You have to admire that she is confident enough in herself to keep a standard that she doesn't just drop or making exceptions for because she meets a hot guy.The answer to your question is very simple.What is more important to you? A relationship with this girl - or - alcohol. Choose the one that you think will make you happier in life.I see what you mean and everything, on paper but like...can i speak freely here, using like...just common language? Cuz i don't wanna offend you if you're some teetotaler or something so don't take this the wrong way but even if you are you're still a lad right so you get what i mean on some level, i don't wanna live like a fuckin' norman for the rest of my life. Every time you're out with the lads 'yeah, i'll have a lemonade shandy'...every party, every Christmas do, every fuckin' football game and in the pub before and after, sitting there with a lemonade or something, a shandy, whilst everyone else is having a laugh, I'm not Ned fuckin' Flanders, it's not like i'm saying i wanna bang out 2 grams of coke and smoke a quarter ounce everyday, it's just having a drink like normal people, I'm not a fuckin' alcoholic or anything it's just....what people do.It's alright if it's not your thing but i ain't forcing no one to do nothing, i don't put conditions on no one that they gotta live a certain way or do certain things.Lol - not offended at all.Everybody has or does their own thing. I would never date a smoker, or a druggie, or a racist, etc.When I was younger I drank all the time. Like the equivalent of Daisy at an all-you-can-eat food buffet. But now I'm at a stage in life where I don't need to get a buzz or drunk on to have a good time. I'd rather be sober. Why do people need to have a couple beers? To get a buzz, to relax, to loosen up - whatever the reason. For me personally, I don't need alcohol to make those things happen.A lot of my friends drink, and when we go out I have just as good of a time as they do, and I don't have anything to drink. BUT you really just answered your own question.Having a few drinks with your boys is more important to you than this girl. Maybe the next girl will also be a drinker. Or maybe you'll fall so in love with the next one, that you will gladly give up drinking for her.This girl clearly doesn't mean enough to you. So like I said - you answered your own question!!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DieselDaisy Posted November 16, 2015 Share Posted November 16, 2015 You cannot beat a good racist for a date. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
streak Posted November 17, 2015 Share Posted November 17, 2015 wouldn't work for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Billsfan Posted November 17, 2015 Share Posted November 17, 2015 Don't ask your friends to fix you up, just go in and ask her out.that never works Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arnold layne Posted November 18, 2015 Share Posted November 18, 2015 Well currently I have ringworm, warts and smeared salicyclic acid all over my face, scarring most of it as a result. I look terrible. My immune system has crashed. I think I should get tested. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DieselDaisy Posted November 18, 2015 Share Posted November 18, 2015 Ringworm? Have you been shagging cats? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spunko12345 Posted November 18, 2015 Share Posted November 18, 2015 Ringworm? Have you been shagging cats?He can't have been it's on his face........He's been noshing them off Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris1989 Posted November 24, 2015 Share Posted November 24, 2015 Arnold discovers Religion, and then discovers a lot of STD's.Sex before marriage is a sin, and he is being punished?High five to all of you who are STD free! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZoSoRose Posted November 24, 2015 Share Posted November 24, 2015 Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Real McCoy Posted November 28, 2015 Share Posted November 28, 2015 Speaking from experience, and after hooking up with a friend that had a boyfriend last year for a few months, trust me, it's not worth it. That girl left me a wreck for a long time. Just look at my posts last year for proof of that. The mental and emotional anguish was a nightmare that never ended. Thankfully, I've been in a much better place since meeting my current girlfriend earlier this year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lithium Posted November 28, 2015 Author Share Posted November 28, 2015 Speaking from experience, and after hooking up with a friend that had a boyfriend last year for a few months, trust me, it's not worth it. That girl left me a wreck for a long time. Just look at my posts last year for proof of that. The mental and emotional anguish was a nightmare that never ended.Thankfully, I've been in a much better place since meeting my current girlfriend earlier this year.She was getting some McCoy on the side, eh? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Real McCoy Posted November 28, 2015 Share Posted November 28, 2015 Speaking from experience, and after hooking up with a friend that had a boyfriend last year for a few months, trust me, it's not worth it. That girl left me a wreck for a long time. Just look at my posts last year for proof of that. The mental and emotional anguish was a nightmare that never ended.Thankfully, I've been in a much better place since meeting my current girlfriend earlier this year. She was getting some McCoy on the side, eh?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zFosUj6A22cAs I came to find out well after the fact, she's been getting some on the side over the course of her entire relationship and doesn't see anything wrong with that.I kinda feel bad for the guy, but he's no prize package himself. They basically deserve each other. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arnold layne Posted November 28, 2015 Share Posted November 28, 2015 Gf and I have been fighting all the time. It is taken a toll on me. I lost thirty pounds and became a chain smoker. I don't think I can handle dating. But I remember being a self-loathing alcoholic wasn't very fun either. It has been a little bit since I have been single so I don't remember how to pick up girls again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Graeme Posted November 29, 2015 Share Posted November 29, 2015 What a barrel of fun you are, Nate . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
estrangedtwat Posted November 29, 2015 Share Posted November 29, 2015 Pick up girls "again"? When did you ever pick up girls? This is your first real girlfriend...it's all a learning experience. You'll figure out more with time and experience. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Len Cnut Posted November 29, 2015 Share Posted November 29, 2015 (edited) Gf and I have been fighting all the time. It is taken a toll on me. I lost thirty pounds and became a chain smoker. I don't think I can handle dating. But I remember being a self-loathing alcoholic wasn't very fun either.It has been a little bit since I have been single so I don't remember how to pick up girls again.If i spent as much time as you do on morbid self attention i wouldnt imagine id need a girlfriend, i'd just stand in front of a full length mirror naked and masturbate everyday, its cheaper and you'd be as closest to true love as possible. Edited November 29, 2015 by Len B'stard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Facekicker Posted November 29, 2015 Share Posted November 29, 2015 Well currently I have ringworm, warts and smeared salicyclic acid all over my face, scarring most of it as a result.I look terrible.My immune system has crashed. I think I should get tested.What the fuck? You mucky bastard. Tested? Quarantine would be better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gracii Guns Posted November 29, 2015 Share Posted November 29, 2015 Well currently I have ringworm, warts and smeared salicyclic acid all over my face, scarring most of it as a result. I look terrible. My immune system has crashed. I think I should get tested.Did you catch all this from practising chastity, Nate? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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