janrichmond Posted August 12, 2017 Share Posted August 12, 2017 40 minutes ago, AslatIE said: I don't ever want to marry, having a ring on my bending finger forever is a nightmare You are talking about guitar stuff right?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Len Cnut Posted August 12, 2017 Share Posted August 12, 2017 29 minutes ago, janrichmond said: You are talking about guitar stuff right?? Nah, he's worried about losing it somewhere dark. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eric Cantona Posted August 12, 2017 Share Posted August 12, 2017 12 minutes ago, Len Cnut said: Nah, he's worried about losing it somewhere dark. Pervert! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gracii Guns Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 @Len Cnut Many people don't just decide one day to get married, but enter the relationship from the start with that intention. And call me old fashioned (I know I am!) but when a couple has children, they need to know that their parents are committed to that family for life. For that feeling of security. Kids understand marriage pretty early on, and would probably wonder what was going on if mummy and daddy say they love each other but haven't made that commitment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gracii Guns Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 So… how targeted are the ads on here? Because I'm fine thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AtariLegend Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 1 hour ago, Gracii Guns said: So… how targeted are the ads on here? Because I'm fine thanks. Now we know what you've been googling. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janrichmond Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 13 hours ago, Gracii Guns said: @Len Cnut Many people don't just decide one day to get married, but enter the relationship from the start with that intention. And call me old fashioned (I know I am!) but when a couple has children, they need to know that their parents are committed to that family for life. For that feeling of security. Kids understand marriage pretty early on, and would probably wonder what was going on if mummy and daddy say they love each other but haven't made that commitment. I think the only time my kids asked about our lack of marriage was when we went to a wedding and they casually asked what our wedding was like. I said we never had one and you don't have to if you don't want to but it's up to you. They said they wanted to get married because you got presents and cake. Out of 6 kids only 1 has married so far. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soon Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 Ive known people to marry so that if one goes to jail there are certain rights for visiting and contact. And as a person with health problems, Id marry because spouses are allowed access in emergencies - they can be in ICU and stuff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janrichmond Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 19 minutes ago, soon said: Ive known people to marry so that if one goes to jail there are certain rights for visiting and contact. And as a person with health problems, Id marry because spouses are allowed access in emergencies - they can be in ICU and stuff. I have not come across anything that i can't do because of not being married, not yet anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soon Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 5 minutes ago, janrichmond said: I have not come across anything that i can't do because of not being married, not yet anyway. Im happy to hear that, and it would be a complete injustice if you had been bared from something. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dazey Posted August 14, 2017 Share Posted August 14, 2017 On 12/08/2017 at 1:52 PM, Len Cnut said: Why do people get married? Immigration? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Len Cnut Posted August 14, 2017 Share Posted August 14, 2017 3 hours ago, Dazey said: Immigration? Romantic to the last McLeod, thats the way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris1989 Posted August 14, 2017 Share Posted August 14, 2017 On 8/12/2017 at 11:05 PM, Whiskey Rose said: I can understand people wanting to get married, but I hate weddings. No one cares except your immediate family, I find it's just an excuse to get money and gifts; I find it kind of rude actually. lol. Although I do think maybe I'm in the minority here. I've never married, but if I did, I would not subject anyone else to the wedding, except perhaps my parents. Wow, that's fucked up. My friends can't wait to see us get married. We've had so many cards and well wishes. Those who haven't seemed happy for us won't be included on the guest list - we've still managed 70 people so far. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoulMonster Posted August 14, 2017 Share Posted August 14, 2017 On 13.8.2017 at 0:05 AM, Whiskey Rose said: I can understand people wanting to get married, but I hate weddings. No one cares except your immediate family, I find it's just an excuse to get money and gifts; I find it kind of rude actually. lol. Although I do think maybe I'm in the minority here. I've never married, but if I did, I would not subject anyone else to the wedding, except perhaps my parents. I am not a big fan of the ceremony, either. When we got married we just invited our closest family, it made it more intimate and better. I am sure some more distant family and friends felt snubbed, but fuck it, this was about us not them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whiskey Rose Posted August 14, 2017 Share Posted August 14, 2017 22 minutes ago, SoulMonster said: I am not a big fan of the ceremony, either. When we got married we just invited our closest family, it made it more intimate and better. I am sure some more distant family and friends felt snubbed, but fuck it, this was about us not them. And that's exactly it. 1 hour ago, Chris1989 said: Wow, that's fucked up. My friends can't wait to see us get married. We've had so many cards and well wishes. Those who haven't seemed happy for us won't be included on the guest list - we've still managed 70 people so far. Obviously you're just about to get married so I won't rain on your parade any more than I already have I'm sure it will be a lovely ceremony, and enjoy your special day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eric Cantona Posted August 14, 2017 Share Posted August 14, 2017 1 hour ago, SoulMonster said: we just invited our closest family, it made it more intimate and better. giggity 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
john lennon Posted August 15, 2017 Share Posted August 15, 2017 my boyfriend gets home tomorrow after being away for a week and a half and guess who got her period today?? i'm not fond of period sex :// kill me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Len Cnut Posted August 15, 2017 Share Posted August 15, 2017 1 hour ago, john lennon said: my boyfriend gets home tomorrow after being away for a week and a half and guess who got her period today?? i'm not fond of period sex :// kill me You wanna think about it from Johnny Red Tips point of view! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris1989 Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 21 hours ago, john lennon said: my boyfriend gets home tomorrow after being away for a week and a half and guess who got her period today?? i'm not fond of period sex :// kill me You're female? Guess I've not read too much into your posts.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arnold layne Posted August 20, 2017 Share Posted August 20, 2017 On 8/16/2017 at 2:09 PM, Chris1989 said: You're female? Guess I've not read too much into your posts.. Well to be fair on your behalf, her username is john lennon ffs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whiskey Rose Posted August 20, 2017 Share Posted August 20, 2017 Well we are now apparently all genderless, in keeping with the new rules of society! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Len Cnut Posted August 20, 2017 Share Posted August 20, 2017 Well if I'm a bird the first bloke to chat me up is in for a shock Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whiskey Rose Posted August 20, 2017 Share Posted August 20, 2017 Oh i can't wait for this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marlingrl03 Posted August 20, 2017 Share Posted August 20, 2017 2 hours ago, Whiskey Rose said: Well we are now apparently all genderless, in keeping with the new rules of society! Hmmm, my profile still lists my gender. Unless I'm the only one who can see it listed? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whiskey Rose Posted August 20, 2017 Share Posted August 20, 2017 4 hours ago, marlingrl03 said: Hmmm, my profile still lists my gender. Unless I'm the only one who can see it listed? Well yes, if we go creeping into someone's profile we can see it I'm just referring to the little x's that are there now on the main face of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.